"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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M-DJs and S-DJs need some input here...

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Pancho84

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Hey ya'll lol
OK I have no problem approaching in person, tall short hot ugly, I'm past that. IN PERSON. however how the fuk would you reply to some online ads - sent this girl just a quick message saying that her profile made me drop her a line or two and to have a happy new year.... 3 days later she's like:

Hey there,
Thanks--Happy New year to u too!
Im doin ok----how r u doin?---ummm let me kno what u wanna kno and ill answer.....ok TTUL


So yeah I've never tried the whole online deal before so needless to say I'm pretty lost about it.
Some guidance, please!

tsaaaanks u sooo mucho
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Pancho84

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ok dumb me lol I'm going to do a search on this topic i'm sure its been brought up before.. i guess it slipped, but still anyone has some input?
later
 
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my bad hahahha right after posting i'm like wait a minute i should do a search lol thanks peeps lol
 
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