Lying To Protect Husband? Think She Really Got Beat?

[joverby]

Hey guys.

I got a call at about 11 something last night finding out someone who is very close to me had an "accident" while carrying a washing machine up the stairs w/ her husband.

I pretty immediately thought the story was bullsh1t. But remain objective and provide counter arguements if you disagree.

-It apparently happened at 10 something at night
-It allegedly fell down when they were on the last step up.
-The washer was on a dolly(not tied to it)
-She fell down the stairs and it apparently landed on her head.
-They didn't call 911 and he drove her to the hospital
-Any time I asked details in the room she would start crying and just talk about how lucky she is to be alive and say how she tried to stop it but it was coming too fast etc.
-She later said she didn't remember what happened(When he was out of the room)
-He was on the dollys back side carrying the majority of the weight up, for some reason she was on the other side to "keep it stable"
-Their relationship isn't good at all. And last Saturday she told her sister how she didn't think they were going to be together much longer(They have 3 kids so it complicates things)
-Apparently she told her sister today that a fridge fell on her. Contridicting the washer thing. Maybe just from the trauma? But you would think you would remember something like that accurately.(Her CT showed no brain damage.)

When I was grilling him(lightly) about how exactly it would've fallen on her alls he could come up with is she must of lifted it up or something... I really wanted to take him outside and beat him down but I know that won't make the situation any better. But I want to uncover the truth and help her get out of this situation if he did indeed do this to her.

 

[Warrior74]

Women lie. I've had two women lie to me about being raped. How sick is that?

 

[joverby]

I'm sorry. Should've worded the title better. I believe she is lying to PROTECT the husband, not to blame him.

 

[Robert28]

Hey guys.

I got a call at about 11 something last night finding out someone who is very close to me had an "accident" while carrying a washing machine up the stairs w/ her husband.

I pretty immediately thought the story was bullsh1t. But remain objective and provide counter arguements if you disagree.

-It apparently happened at 10 something at night(who moves a washing machine at 10:00 at night? no one I know.)
-It allegedly fell down when they were on the last step up.(the last step huh? i would buy that if she had said the 3rd, 4th, or 5th step but not the last step.)
-The washer was on a dolly(not tied to it)(either her husband doesn't know how to move anything, or theyre too cheap to have the place they bought it from deliver it. costs maybe $20. cheap b@stards)
-She fell down the stairs and it apparently landed on her head.if a washing machine falls on your head after gaining momentum from falling down a flight of stairs, she would be dead or have brain dammage.)
-They didn't call 911 and he drove her to the hospital(if a washing machine fell on my head i wouldnt want to be moved. i would call 911 right away. its funny how when these "accidents" occur they never bother to call 911)
-Any time I asked details in the room she would start crying and just talk about how lucky she is to be alive and say how she tried to stop it but it was coming too fast etc.(she acctually triued to stop a 500lb washing machine from falling? is she a super hero or something?)
-She later said she didn't remember what happened(When he was out of the room)(oh NOW she doesnt remember. funny how that happens isnt it? that dang short term memory is a *****)
-He was on the dollys back side carrying the majority of the weight up, for some reason she was on the other side to "keep it stable"(moving for idiots 101. they should write a book together)
-Their relationship isn't good at all. And last Saturday she told her sister how she didn't think they were going to be together much longer(They have 3 kids so it complicates things)(this is shocking! who would have ever guessed their relationshiped sucked??? not me! had me fooled the whole time!)
-Apparently she told her sister today that a fridge fell on her. Contridicting the washer thing. Maybe just from the trauma? But you would think you would remember something like that accurately.(Her CT showed no brain damage.)she may not have brain dammage from the washer(aka her husband) but she has brain dammage from something. which is it b!tch a washing machine or a fridge?)

When I was grilling him(lightly) about how exactly it would've fallen on her alls he could come up with is she must of lifted it up or something(she lifted up a 500lb washing machine by herself? id be scared of a woman with strength like that much less want to abuse her in fear of having my 180lb @$$ kicked!)... I really wanted to take him outside and beat him down but I know that won't make the situation any better. But I want to uncover the truth and help her get out of this situation if he did indeed do this to her.

there's my take on the situation.

 

[joverby]

I apprecaite your intake but I fail to see the need to insult someone. Especially someone who just got beat by someone that's supposed to be there to take care of her and protect her. No need for the pompousness.

Ya, the entire thing doesn't add up and I would like it if he was 6 feet under a lettuce patch. I plan on grilling her later and if / when I get it out of her I'm "talking" to him next.

I said the same thing too. If it fell on your head like that from tumbling down stairs it would crush your skull, no doubt about it. Not sure how the doctor bought this story.

 

[Iceberg]

Trust your gut. But, I'd say that if you really want to form an opinion about this, you should ask around and see if he has a history of getting violent with her. Not disagreeing with her or verbally fighting her....but pushing, throwing stuff, etc.

If he's the type of person to punch a girl around bad enough to send her to the hospital, then there were probably some less-dramatic physical altercations that led up to this.

That's just my thoughts.

 

[joverby]

Trust your gut. But, I'd say that if you really want to form an opinion about this, you should ask around and see if he has a history of getting violent with her. Not disagreeing with her or verbally fighting her....but pushing, throwing stuff, etc.

If he's the type of person to punch a girl around bad enough to send her to the hospital, then there were probably some less-dramatic physical altercations that led up to this.

That's just my thoughts.

That Saturday fight involved him throwing / breaking things. Funny you mentioned that.

 

[the_stig]

Go check the "washing machine" for signs of damage. No way could it roll down a flight of stairs and not exhibit dents, scratches or broken parts.

 

[Robert28]

I apprecaite your intake but I fail to see the need to insult someone. Especially someone who just got beat by someone that's supposed to be there to take care of her and protect her. No need for the pompousness.

Ya, the entire thing doesn't add up and I would like it if he was 6 feet under a lettuce patch. I plan on grilling her later and if / when I get it out of her I'm "talking" to him next.

I said the same thing too. If it fell on your head like that from tumbling down stairs it would crush your skull, no doubt about it. Not sure how the doctor bought this story.

i'm not insulting her personally, i'm just fed up with this bull$h!t. fed up with it!!!!!!!!!!!! i'm fed up with women ALLOWING guys to exhibit this kind of behavior and then STAY WITH THEM in the end. that's what she will do, trust me, she won't leave him. it's got nothing to do with the kids either, that's just an excuse that sounds good. she won't leave him because she "loves" him. whatever "love" is. look at it this way, if a girl ever put her hands on me, threw crap at me, shoved me down a flgith of stairs, sent me to the hospital....you think i'd stay with her??!! he!! fvck no i wouldn't! it would take one time.....ONE MOTHER F'ING TIME. either women need to nip this crap in the bud and refuse to take it from men, and men need to grow up and express their anger and frustration on another man. these are the kinds of men you get when you are raised by a single mom, i bet you anything his parents divorced when he was little and he never had a father figure. the fact that your friend allows this stuff to go on is beyond my comprehension, but its happening everyday with alot of other idiot women dating loser men, so what can you do. it was their choice to date the trash in the first place, so let them deal with it. you can talk to her til your blue in the face and it wont matter none. stupid girls are going to make stupid decisions. you can have all the talks with him you want, he will just take it out on her. best thing you can do is not get in the middle of it. the only way ive ever seen women quit taking this crap is when their friends started ignoring them and they had no one to tell their drama too and refuse advice from. then they all of a sudden wakeup and realize "hey i dont want to be treated like this anymore because i have no one to listen to me. i ran all my friends off cause they tried to tell me to leave him but im just too dumb of a b!tch to listen. now ill take their advice and give myself all the credit." bunch of GD bull$h!t if you ask me!!!!! fvcking TIRED of it!