LYING to get LAID

[Delta]

MOST OF SEDUCTION IS A LIE -

seduction is about FANTASY - not reality. just ask the women - what do you think all the make up, high heels, push up bras and stuff are for?

same thing with men, most of us put on a "game face" that represents not only the "BEST POSSIBLE US" on a date (which in and of itself is a lie), but it plays and panders to the fantasy of women.... just as they cater to our fantasies with their aforementioned paraphernalia.

IT IS AAAAAAALLLLLLLLL A LIE!

you know how they say that in a relationship there is a "honeymoon period", that ends guess when? right, when we see through the fantasy and the lies to see through to the real, prosaic person underneath.

we all want our dream. we don't any of us want the insecure, lazy and boring person that ACTUALLY IS.

every dam one of us be it male or female. when you take away the colorful feathers, we're all the same chicken underneath.

so there it is.

lie. get over it. it is literally the nature of the beast.

the issue is not WHETHER to lie or not. the issue is whether you're even a competent liar in the first-fvcking-place.

delta

 

[MIKE.T]

Allen Thompson established SoSuave.com as The Don Juan Center in 1998 as a resource for men to meet, date, and attract women. There was never any requirement that those who published through the DJ Center or participated in the community must make their life about getting laid. In fact, there was an understood flexibility with regard to the goals of individuals. The people who frequent this website and participate in this community do so for a variety of reasons, from validation of behavior to comfort in times of need to familiarizing themselves with male relationship issues to transforming their health and body.

Transforming their health and body with a view to getting laid. You can idealize it all you want, but the truth is that over the last five or so years, 95% of the threads have been about getting laid or about issues regarding getting laid.

None of this means one makes ones entire life revolve around getting laid, but learning to get laid is the prime reason - far beyond anything else - that people come here.

The immortal enemy of the Don Juan has always been the shallow, careless, and selfish Jerks who exist only to prey upon women. These jerks include the likes of skip2mylou781 and his cronies who promote deceit and malpractice to take advantage of their unsuspecting victims. Their behavior amounts to physical and mental abuse. At some point in their desperate lives, they will be brought up on charges. They are despised, hated, and if the moderators here had access to ban controls, they would be prohibited from accessing this community entirely. They will inevitably hit rock bottom and realize that they, too, hate the men they've become.

Don Juans understand that there is more to life than sex. By pursuing a better life, Don Juans become better men.

I don't know which Don Juan you're thinking of, but you'd have to romanticize the Don Juan of legend/literature to the hilt to turn him into some sort of icon of life-long self-improvement - in fact, you'd have to completely rewrite the legend.

 

[MIKE.T]

MOST OF SEDUCTION IS A LIE -

seduction is about FANTASY - not reality. just ask the women - what do you think all the make up, high heels, push up bras and stuff are for?

same thing with men, most of us put on a "game face" that represents not only the "BEST POSSIBLE US" on a date (which in and of itself is a lie), but it plays and panders to the fantasy of women.... just as they cater to our fantasies with their aforementioned paraphernalia.

IT IS AAAAAAALLLLLLLLL A LIE!

you know how they say that in a relationship there is a "honeymoon period", that ends guess when? right, when we see through the fantasy and the lies to see through to the real, prosaic person underneath.

we all want our dream. we don't any of us want the insecure, lazy and boring person that ACTUALLY IS.

every dam one of us be it male or female. when you take away the colorful feathers, we're all the same chicken underneath.

so there it is.

lie. get over it. it is literally the nature of the beast.

the issue is not WHETHER to lie or not. the issue is whether you're even a competent liar in the first-fvcking-place.

delta

There's that, which woman, at least to an extent, seek, and then there's outright deception, which they don't seek, is hurtful and - dare I say? - immoral.

 

[mrRuckus]

seduction is about FANTASY - not reality. just ask the women - what do you think all the make up, high heels, push up bras and stuff are for?

To avoid exercise and eating right?