"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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lying in LTR??!!

hck332

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Ok, what would you do if she lied to you about her previous relationships and you know she's lying.


I don't care what she did in past, but knowing that she's lying to me, and we're comitted, I kinda feel like this is not cool.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What exactly is she lying about?

Example of acceptable lie: "My ex boyfriend had a dog, cat, and 2 fish", when in reality, it was a dog, cat, and one fish.

Example of unacceptable lie: "I never cheated on my boyfriend", when in reality she was filmed gangbanging the entire L.A. Lakers team in their locker room and the video was massmarketed and is widely available for download both on P2P networks, such as Kazza and Bearshare and on Torrent pornography sites, such as Empornium and Pure T'n'a.
 

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Originally posted by italostud
What exactly is she lying about?

the video was massmarketed and is widely available for download both on P2P networks, such as Kazza and Bearshare and on Torrent pornography sites, such as Empornium and Pure T'n'a.
LOL.........Wow, somone knows where to search for porn!.......:crackup:
 

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Originally posted by cochise
LOL.........Wow, somone knows where to search for porn!.......:crackup:
He missed Bit Torrent and limewire....but anyways back to subject.

italostud is spot on.....Some lies are so minor they can be seen as a simple mistake. If you tell us what she lied about we could give you a better opinion...

My general policy is I do not accept lieing or lie myself. Im very strict about it. All my friends and girls i have been with know that.
 

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Originally posted by hck332
Ok, what would you do if she lied to you about her previous relationships and you know she's lying.
First I'd wonder if she actually thinks I give a sh!t, realise she probably does considering the long line of AFCs who came before me , laugh to myself then go back to eating my sandwich and scratching my balls.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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