"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Lying about STD, dump?

QuadDeuces

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Would you dump a girl if you found out she lied about an STD?

My recent ex had Herpes and was too scared to tell me, it took her 10 jack and coke to confess this to me. She begged me to forgive me and not dump her, which I sort of did after a harsh monologue by me, because I understood there would always be the "why didn't you tell me before" issue. But I think that if she didn't had an outbreak she wouldn't have told me.
Anyway she dumped me a week later, but Im now regretting to not have ditched her right then. She basically lied to me after the std test and put my health at risk too.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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backbreaker

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lol yeah that's pretty much when you throw up the deuces. i mean if she will lie about that, what won't she lie about?
 

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At least she told you eventually. It sounds like she could have had sex with you and infected you, but she couldn't go through with it. You should consider yourself lucky and move on with your life.
 
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