Many guys, even the most experienced DJs and PUAs, have trouble cutting their losses.
They go to a club, spend more than their fair share of time dancing with/gaming a girl, when something somewhere goes wrong - sometimes the guy doesn't even know what it is, but the girl is acting strange: looking away a lot, giving him the impression that she'd rather be anywhere else than where he is.
Of course, its human nature to try to fix something that is broken. So, these guys invest more time into trying to mend the situation and her interest level, when they really do not know exactly what made her interest drop in the first place.
Maybe she wasn't interested at all.
Maybe she saw the guy as a sucker who'd buy her a drink but he didn't and now she's on the prowl for a new target.
Maybe he did buy her a drink(the fool) and he is of no use to her anymore.
It doesn't matter the reason. What matters is that her interest is not in the guy - namely, you.
Fight your instinct. What society and logic teach you is to fix what is broken. Of course, in business and in the art of gaming(whether it be poker or girls) you cut your losses and move on.
There is no sense in investing your time into a girl that's going nowhere.
Would you invest your money in a losing company?
They go to a club, spend more than their fair share of time dancing with/gaming a girl, when something somewhere goes wrong - sometimes the guy doesn't even know what it is, but the girl is acting strange: looking away a lot, giving him the impression that she'd rather be anywhere else than where he is.
Of course, its human nature to try to fix something that is broken. So, these guys invest more time into trying to mend the situation and her interest level, when they really do not know exactly what made her interest drop in the first place.
Maybe she wasn't interested at all.
Maybe she saw the guy as a sucker who'd buy her a drink but he didn't and now she's on the prowl for a new target.
Maybe he did buy her a drink(the fool) and he is of no use to her anymore.
It doesn't matter the reason. What matters is that her interest is not in the guy - namely, you.
Fight your instinct. What society and logic teach you is to fix what is broken. Of course, in business and in the art of gaming(whether it be poker or girls) you cut your losses and move on.
There is no sense in investing your time into a girl that's going nowhere.
Would you invest your money in a losing company?