"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Luke Skywalker's myspace page (with pics)

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ToughLove

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good god i just checked his page out........Luke u sound like a religious psycho, and u actually look OK so looks shoudlnt be your problem

girls dont wanna hear about religion, #1 rule
 

Flabbergasped?

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If that's really Luke, then his looks are fine, and it's really just himself that's holding him back (but we all knew that, right?)

Get a better haircut, work out, and buy more fashionable clothes, the increased attention should boost your confidence enough for you to grab your balls for once and make a move.
 

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he only has two friends -- and one of them is Tom? :crackup:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hmm, he kinda looks like the mexican version of Pradeep in the first pic.
 

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KarmaSutra said:
The only question which begs to be asked is:

Who gives a flying fvck?
The only question is why are you being an ass? Got nothing nice to say? Get out of the thread.
 

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ElStud said:
The only question is why are you being an ass? Got nothing nice to say? Get out of the thread.
negative. i agree with karma. who honestly cares about this? why would you make a thread about this? and why is it in this section of the forum?

you're a child, you don't have to be nice to voice your opinion.
 

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Michele said:
negative. i agree with karma. who honestly cares about this? why would you make a thread about this? and why is it in this section of the forum?
If you don't care about it so much just don't post. No one's asking you to. If you truly "didn't care" you wouldn't have posted in the first place.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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That guy's got the worst fashion sense ever. That pigeon square picture just screams "jackass american tourist". (edit- even if he's canadian)
 

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I think the thread was suppoused to be a personal attack and turn into a "let's make fun of LS" thread. But yeah, I agree with Karma. Let the brother do his own ****ing thing..
 

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posting on a thread that u dont even see a point in is pretty pointless too, isnt it?
 

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ToughLove said:
posting on a thread that u dont even see a point in is pretty pointless too, isnt it?
It's one thing to start a legitimate thread with an issue affecting us as men. It's quite another to start one to watch your post count grow.

Not that I'd point a finger at you . . .:eek:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Why are all the comments pertain to look? Are all people on sosuave not so good looking?
 
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