Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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LTR with a super hot babe

sambwoy

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Leprechaun2013 said:
What a stupid question to ask.

You seriously want to be in LTR's with ugly women? :crackup:

Of course you want a hot babe for an LTR.
There was a part of me who wanted a 'hot babe' for social status. The old me did anyway. After all, our shallow youth/beauty obsessed culture builds them up as good people that we should give a fvck about. Through my teens and early twenties I was giving power to others feeling and thinking that I would never be one of those, and it affected my life on so many fronts. The real me that I tried so hard to embrace was just ridiculed and isolated.

Many people might find 'pity party' threads annoying after a fashion, be it from a man or woman, but looks matter.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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