"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LTR With A masochist

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London NATURAL said:
She's scrumptious. 5'1", size 6 in UK sizes, but unusually has a 30DD chest and a nice sized arse. So it wasn't the skinny arse that hurt my hand, more the voracity that worked for her. Hence the riding crop proved to be a good tool on her arse & thighs.

She loves the tender application of Germaline afterwards.

She doesn't do a proper deep throat though, which is something to work on.

(new to writing on forums and loving the anonymity)
You can really have a lot of fun with a submissive girl. As long as you keep it safe and don't bring in third parties, it works wonders in a relationship as well.

My girl LOVES to be gagged while giving head. We are long distance so early in our relationship we would write each other little short stories, and her's were kinky as hell! Normally girls hate that so I was hesitant, but after she ASKED me to grab her pony tail and make her mascara run, I was all about it. And we do this pretty much every time, lol.

It's a lot of fun when you find a girl who likes rough play and manhandling. You feel like a man and she feels like a woman.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"Asked me to grab her pony tail and make her mascara run", love that line..
Mine's got a classic short bob (she had it cut how I like it) but I can still grab a handful of hair and pull her head back. I'm going to borrow the "make my mascara run" line and tell her that's what's going to happen, and try to keep a straight face. She's already been playfully instructed to Google "controlling your gag reflex."

One thing that has become apparent is the turbo charging effect this supreme submission is having on my, for want of a better word, attitude (I believe the PUA term is inner game.) Which obviously she relishes. So it becomes a self seeding cycle of attraction. When we're out together she's really picking up on the looks and overt flirting signals I'm receiving (although I fein ignorance.) Which further validates her choice (in me) and continues seeding the cycle.

A couple of my friends and I have noticed this effect before, prior to our fairly recent knowledge of "Game." We referred to it as "famine or feast". But what's happening now is much, much greater than I've experienced before. To use a term I've used previously, it turns it up to 11.. Shame you can't bottle it!
 
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