LTR:- Will GFs with High interest level ever cheat??

[charlezz]

I have a bugging question in my mind for ages.. and can't really find a good Discussion about this topic.

We all know that girls with low interest have a certain chance of cheating when opportunities present itself.

But if your girlfriend is all over you (90% to 100% interest level in you), will they ever cheat on you? Given if an HIGH VALUE male like Brad Pitt wants to snatch her away from you.

Discuss.

 

[charlezz]

Personally, I feel that it boils down to the character of the girl and her upbringing, and the friends she is mixing around. If her friends are the party kinds, it will be a good test on your gf's character.

 

[BeDJ]

Yes

With 1 Brad Pitt pursuing her...maybe.

With 10 Brad Pitts pursuing her...absolutely

If she has a good conscious, she will dump you first. Same result

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

Angelina cheated on Brad Pitt with Billy Bob Thorton. So yeah, if Brad Pitt gets cheated on any guy can.

 

[nismo-4]

All women cheat! It's women going for greener pastures! All men get cheated on!

Don't you realize that with the infinite options women have, they can find a better man (or a supposed better man?)

 

[Renegade357]

Normal women do not cheat when they have high interest level. Only the nut jobs do.

 

[Alvafe]

I guess you can lower the chance for it, but be 100% cheat proof don't think so, one reason for LDR never work on my view, its a too big window of opportunity for it, hell some would even call sick to cheat, and say they was working (and yeah I saw that happen).

 

[Scars]

Every person will cheat if they're in a situation where they're tempted enough and they're absolutely sure they can get away with it. The key is finding someone who doesn't put themselves in those situation in the first place. Woman of high interest don't put themselves in stupid situations like that because they don't want to risk losing you.

-Scars

 

[ArcBound]

All women cheat! It's women going for greener pastures! All men get cheated on!

Don't you realize that with the infinite options women have, they can find a better man (or a supposed better man?)

I'm going to go with a no right now. I'm at a point where I'm spinning plates easy and if I wanted to I could get with several of them. But I won't. Why? Maybe I'm retarded, but I just choose not to.

The whole women can't control themselves and are all prone to cheating is an excuse. It's an excuse women use to cheat and men use to explain their gf/wife cheating.

Sure I would say there is no GUARANTEE that a girl will NEVER cheat. But the character of the girl, who and where she hangs around, the type of family she grew up in, how much she loves you in comparison to how much you love her, your alphaness and many other factors will actually determine whether she actually will cheat or not.

Inb4 someone gives the retarded example of Bradd Pitt.

 

[Scars]

Here's also a good blog post by Rollo on the subject.

http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/2011/08/23/schedules-of-mating/

-Scars

 

[5string]

Anyone might cheat regardless of their interest level.

I have been cheated on a couple times. Once by my finace in college. She was trading her pvssy for cocaine. I suspected something was wrong but never confronted her until I actually found out. I kicked the b!tch out on the fvckin spot without hesitation.

One thing I have learned over the years is to listen to the little guy that sits on your shoulder. He's usually right.

 

[JohnnyStorm]

Anyone can cheat because the decisions they make will depend on a myriad of factors.
Some may be inclined to be impulsive and be drawn in by the moment, whether that is eg. she's feeling down and has a run in with another guy who likes her and acts in the heat of the moment.

How we react to momentery impulses depends on our willpower. Someone with high IL, with the ability to resist impulses would probably be able to catch themselves and have the mental dialogue with themselves that will be going along the lines of, "Hang on? Is this really the sensible thing to do here? What about *Insert name here*?".

Someone with lower willpower would probably be more likely to react to the situation, rather than being in charge of it themselves.

At the end of the day, you can handle it, if they cheat, then meh, next her and onto someone who will treat you better.

 

[switch]

well cheating,for most of the girls i've seen , that word doesn't exist
in their world cheating is called "the right to choose"

Here's also a good blog post by Rollo on the subject.

http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/2011/08/23/schedules-of-mating/

-Scars

summerry of that article :
DONT marry anyone
all women cheat
dont marry/date single mothers
better to be a jerk than the nice guy

 

[betheman]

women dont cheat, they do however have moments when they are vulnerable, oddly enough its during these vulnerable moments when some sneaky ba$tard takes advantage of them...but no, they never cheat

 

[zekko]

High interest will make a girl less likely to cheat, generally speaking.
But I see cheating as more of a function of personality. A girl who is a slvt or cheater is always going to cheat. A nice girl might cheat under certain circumstances, but is far less likely too - as long as she has high interest.

I think for most failed relationships, the cheating starts after the high interest (or the "honeymoon phase") fades away.

 

[ArcBound]

well cheating,for most of the girls i've seen , that word doesn't exist
in their world cheating is called "the right to choose"


summerry of that article :
DONT marry anyone
all women cheat
dont marry/date single mothers
better to be a jerk than the nice guy

If your first clause were true, why would the author of the article be married, for several years and with a daughter?

High interest will make a girl less likely to cheat, generally speaking.
But I see cheating as more of a function of personality. A girl who is a slvt or cheater is always going to cheat. A nice girl might cheat under certain circumstances, but is far less likely too - as long as she has high interest.

I think for most failed relationships, the cheating starts after the high interest (or the "honeymoon phase") fades away.

^ Exactly.

I suspect, though can't be sure, that sosuave has a bias. People with relationship problems tend to come to this site, and that includes people that have been cheated on. Maybe a lot of women cheat, but if you go around life thinking every woman cheats then you are going to have a bad time.

Anyone who says this sort of B.S. is like a fat woman complaining all men suck...I'm not saying put on rosy colored glasses, but for god sakes take off your black colored ones.

 

[bigneil]

No, but her high interest won't last forever.

Remember: a woman can never cheat on a man unless he asks her for a commitment. Why should he give her the opportunity?

Also, there is something to be said about playing it for the long term. Let her do her thing and if she is still close to you after 6 months, 12 months, 18 months, then you will have a much more secure position with her, sort of the way tempered glass (Pyrex) is much less likely to shatter.

 

[bigneil]

In hindsight, life is a bunch of moments that you remember in random order. Don't focus on continuity, focus on having great moments. For long term, equally important to her interest level is her attitude. You want the women who are always smiling (especially when they are around you).