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LTR wants to wait to have sex

Supremo

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Hey guys,
I'm to the point now where I can give good advice on getting girls and feel like I have been on this site for a while now.
Right now I'm in a LTR with this girl and we've been together for a little over 2 months now.
Quick background: we're both virgins. She and I aren't unexperienced with everything else but both of us have wanted to wait to lose our virginity until we find someone who isn't just some random hookup.
We've talked about having sex twice now, most recently we decided it'd be best for her to be on birth control before we do. And it wasn't weird talking about it either, we're totally comfortable with each other, talking and hooking up.

The only problem is, she says she wants to wait. I DON'T want to rush anything because I really like this girl and she definitely likes me back, so don't say anything like "just put a condom on and shove it in."

I told her (what I honestly believe) that in a LTR when people have sex it brings them closer together and she's the first girl who I've really felt totally comfortable with losing my virginity to. When I said that, she agreed but said she didn't want to rush things and that we should wait for a bit.

Like I said I'm not just looking for a quick lay, this is my first time and I want it to be something I don't regret losing. But I feel ready and she obviously wants to wait.


Any ideas?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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KarmaSutra

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Wait then, but not forever. She will eventually need to put out or go out. This is not being an egotistical or superficial man in any regard. But you need to set a perameter of time in which you guys will commit to each other sexually.

Don't let these guys bullsh!t you into thinking: "More pvssy is what the goal of man is." That's garbage. If you feel like waiting a bit and making it a special event in your life then by all means do it. You are more of a man than most here for making a decision for YOUR life which YOU'RE comfortable with.
 

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KarmaSutra said:
Wait then, but not forever. She will eventually need to put out or go out. This is not being an egotistical or superficial man in any regard. But you need to set a perameter of time in which you guys will commit to each other sexually.

Don't let these guys bullsh!t you into thinking: "More pvssy is what the goal of man is." That's garbage. If you feel like waiting a bit and making it a special event in your life then by all means do it. You are more of a man than most here for making a decision for YOUR life which YOU'RE comfortable with.
Thanks a lot man.
Being that this is the first relationship I've felt comfortable enough losing my virginity in, I don't really know how to set this "sexual parameter" without seeming too pushy. I told her that I respect her decision to wait and don't want it to happen if she isn't comfortable either.
It seems like if I say, "we should do it by xxx" then when that time does happen it could end up weird.
In no way am I trying to manipulate her into giving up her virginity before she is ready, and for sure I want it to be special for my first time. It just sucks I guess because I feel like I am ready and she isn't.
But KarmaSutra, mad respect for understanding my wanting to wait. Most people on here would just automatically tell me to next her for one of the high school sluts.
 

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Young brother, you and you alone, can determine how long you're willing to set aside your time in order to begin every boy-man's initiation process.

I'm not in any way saying you aren't a man. Quite the contrary, you seem to get it while most of the guys here just do vogue like monkey poses and play the part.

Wait as long as you're willing but do not push your patience threshold or your desire will turn to regret.

I have my eye on you Private Supremo.
 
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