"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ltr talks about break for hooking up?

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Been with a girl for over a year.
We had a little fight, and then we went the weekend with no talking at all.
When we did talk, she talked about how she hadn't wanted to hook up on the weekend(reason for our fight)
cuz she felt like she was missing out on the "highschool experience" of hooking up with randoms.
We discussed things and decided we would continue on with dating cuz we didn't want to throw away such
a good thing, but now what to do on my part? Clearly she's interested in other guys for hooking up
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Well I let her know I would be fine with a break, ready to let go. And she started asking what if that's what I wanted and I told her no, I value what we have but asked her to be considerate and if she was no longer interested then to be up front about it. When she heard that I guess she went back on her idea about a break, but it's obviously not a resolved issue. I still wanna bang her, but am not going to become whipped just for that. Would it be a good idea to show much less interest, less talking, more flirting with other girls, or is a year+ dating too late for that sort of thing?
 

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Bro if you stay with her after she has made this desire of her's to get pounded by other guy's clear you are on borrowed time.

She only wants to stay with you because she is currently unsure.

In staying with you what she will do is try to find reasons to become annoyed with you and sabotage your relationship together so she can ultimately go do what she wants anyway and be justified in her mind.

The way you win this battle and get what you want ie her back obsessively in love with you is to cut her off and go hook up with other chicks.

She'll be very sad and hurt and her ego will take a hit and yes she may hook up with other guy's in this period but her sadness will continue to grow over believing she's lost you forever and her sadness will mostly be due to the ego hit and not any real love for you but she'll interpret this as love and begin to miss you tremendously and begin contacting you constantly blowing up your cellphone etc.

What you do from there is follow Metaphysical's instructions in his "So you just got dumped guide" to the letter to make her earn her way back into your life which ups her anxiety even more which women weirdly also interpret to mean that they really love you deeply and you win bigtime.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=155594

If you stay with her currently and believe her bullsh!t you are just treading water and will inevitably sink.

Cut her loose from your ship as soon as possible, hook up with other chicks and if she asks for an explanation why you dumped her so coldly just reply calmly each time "its not cool that you want to hook up with other guys so I moved on".

No further explanation than that is needed and each time she tries to a new tactic to get you to explain further explain to her that you are not going to repeat yourself and that is all you have to say on the matter.

Eventually when she really begins begging you to take her back down the line use the instructions in Metaphysical's guide and you will have your girl back with you with a new desire for you in a new relationship with her.

Again if you stay with her now you have to understand her interest is severely diminished and you are on borrowed time.

Most guys new to the game or AFC's who are finally trying to learn how to become a DJ always fail this test the first time and stay with the girl and believe the girl's bullsh!t and end up getting burned by the girl.

Don't be that guy.

Don't be an idiot.

Dump that b!tch, hook up with other chicks, play the game right and she will come back begging if you meant anything to her at all.

Also you must never take responsibility for the breakup, you must always point out it is her fault for wanting to go be with other guys, you must maintain that frame as a man for a woman any woman to respect you.
 

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guy before me said it all really. Next her and get out, and fast.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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