“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Been with a girl for over a year.
We had a little fight, and then we went the weekend with no talking at all.
When we did talk, she talked about how she hadn't wanted to hook up on the weekend(reason for our fight)
cuz she felt like she was missing out on the "highschool experience" of hooking up with randoms.
We discussed things and decided we would continue on with dating cuz we didn't want to throw away such
a good thing, but now what to do on my part? Clearly she's interested in other guys for hooking up
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well I let her know I would be fine with a break, ready to let go. And she started asking what if that's what I wanted and I told her no, I value what we have but asked her to be considerate and if she was no longer interested then to be up front about it. When she heard that I guess she went back on her idea about a break, but it's obviously not a resolved issue. I still wanna bang her, but am not going to become whipped just for that. Would it be a good idea to show much less interest, less talking, more flirting with other girls, or is a year+ dating too late for that sort of thing?
 

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Bro if you stay with her after she has made this desire of her's to get pounded by other guy's clear you are on borrowed time.

She only wants to stay with you because she is currently unsure.

In staying with you what she will do is try to find reasons to become annoyed with you and sabotage your relationship together so she can ultimately go do what she wants anyway and be justified in her mind.

The way you win this battle and get what you want ie her back obsessively in love with you is to cut her off and go hook up with other chicks.

She'll be very sad and hurt and her ego will take a hit and yes she may hook up with other guy's in this period but her sadness will continue to grow over believing she's lost you forever and her sadness will mostly be due to the ego hit and not any real love for you but she'll interpret this as love and begin to miss you tremendously and begin contacting you constantly blowing up your cellphone etc.

What you do from there is follow Metaphysical's instructions in his "So you just got dumped guide" to the letter to make her earn her way back into your life which ups her anxiety even more which women weirdly also interpret to mean that they really love you deeply and you win bigtime.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=155594

If you stay with her currently and believe her bullsh!t you are just treading water and will inevitably sink.

Cut her loose from your ship as soon as possible, hook up with other chicks and if she asks for an explanation why you dumped her so coldly just reply calmly each time "its not cool that you want to hook up with other guys so I moved on".

No further explanation than that is needed and each time she tries to a new tactic to get you to explain further explain to her that you are not going to repeat yourself and that is all you have to say on the matter.

Eventually when she really begins begging you to take her back down the line use the instructions in Metaphysical's guide and you will have your girl back with you with a new desire for you in a new relationship with her.

Again if you stay with her now you have to understand her interest is severely diminished and you are on borrowed time.

Most guys new to the game or AFC's who are finally trying to learn how to become a DJ always fail this test the first time and stay with the girl and believe the girl's bullsh!t and end up getting burned by the girl.

Don't be that guy.

Don't be an idiot.

Dump that b!tch, hook up with other chicks, play the game right and she will come back begging if you meant anything to her at all.

Also you must never take responsibility for the breakup, you must always point out it is her fault for wanting to go be with other guys, you must maintain that frame as a man for a woman any woman to respect you.
 

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guy before me said it all really. Next her and get out, and fast.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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