LTR question

[Bryce556]

hey so recently this one girl i had a fling sorta thing with might have turned into somthing more, and id like too see a possible LTR out of it. its not somthing im used to or have really ever been involved in or had any experiance with. all my stuff has been on the player type DJ front. So i really want to see somthing come out of this.

Any tips of things I should know to avoid doing or stuff I should do to make sure this dosent turn too sour, like when I realized I acually like her alot more then just what we had before I dont want to make any of the common mistakes.

So what in general should i watch out for and do?

 

[WC2]

Stop being a little girl.

Girls look for relationships.

Guys who look for a 'relationship' are usually the ones getting no tail or are getting cheated on by their GFs.

Is your self-value so low that you need a woman in your life to stabalize it?

Come on, build some value in yourself before you start worrying (don't even worry) about women

 

[Cashew]

Don't be needy and clingy.

What attracted the girl to you in the first place? Just continue being the same person she's known you as. Even if she mentions something she doesn't really like about you or something she would like you to change or do differently, don't believe her (though don't necessarily just say that to her face either). She may think it's what she wants, but it isn't. She likes you for who you are so just keep being that person.

Just keep doing what you're doing and having fun. If it's going to work out into a relationship, then it will on its own. Relationships aren't planned, they just happen. So don't go and try making it into one, it's probably wokring fine as it is already without you having to put a label on it as a 'relationship.'