"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LTR post relating to Gold Heart's post and a personal question

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His advice is golden, but I get so tired of women quickly.

I like how he says to make it known that you're asleep by a certain time so you can avoid them at night, that way I can maybe get out of seeing them the next day.

I really need some more tips like that so I can get out of seeing my girl every day or two

Second thing...

A condom broke and she's been on birth control (ring) for a week, which is the time we've been having sex. She's spazzing out and it makes me wonder why I'm in this situation. I think she's paranoid. Is that normal and what can I do to shut her up (besides a shmack upside that head lol).
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Other than the morning after pill, there isn't much else. If it was you, I'd say chill out, theres no point in stressing out over something that you have no control over and secondly over something that has a low likelihood of happening (pregnancy). I'm not saying the possibility isn't there.

I'm just saying, theres no point in cryin over spilt milk. Live your life in a positive manner and play the cards that are dealt. The good thing is you started to take double precautions, eventually that will help.
 

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just do a pregnancy test... if she's preggers, hope to god she's willing to have an abortion...

make sure she doesnt have a condition that if she aborts her first pregnancy, then she wont be able to get pregnant ever agian.. check into it
 
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