LTR isn't interested enough for my needy personality, what to do ?

[NeverChase]

When the girl isn't interested enough in you ...

2.5 years LTR. First 2 years she was absolutely obsessed with me, so I had no problems.
Now I get frustrated, anxious, and depressed all the time. I don't even have an insane 1itis for her, I don't think she's very hot\interesting\cute\special most of the time though. I don't even think there's a special connection between us.

But I do feel terrible every time I see how not obsessed she is anymore.
Even when she does show some obsession towards me I feel it's fake and feel bad.

Dropping the girl won't really solve my personal need for an obsessed lover. But I don't know what I can do to move forward with my problem.

 

[zorg198]

Your ego and pride can hold the change in her attention, u were used to something and now its gone. instead be a man and stop whining like a little girl and start being busy and focus on your goals. your woman does that why cant you?
if you continue like this she will drop you like a sack of potato's and find a someone who does not have a pvssy.

Joe.

 

[NeverChase]

Something a bit off topic, she's online at whatsapp every time I check.
As far as I know she only has 2-3 close female friends , she and they are too boring to text so much every day. I date her 15-24 hours every time, 3 times a week, and she almost never got a massage near me. If her friends were that close they would text her stuff sometimes.
I want to know who she's texting with, but I don't have any way to find out. I know I should be focusing myself, but I don't want to just be blue pill about it and spend my time, emotions and money on a cheating slvt. I'm so "blue pill" inside that every time I check her status I feel like she's checking mine, when she's probably texting another guy.
I don't have a strong enough feeling there's someone else to dump her. Anything I might say will make me super unattractive, and will make her talk with him in another app at best.
How do I get out of this situation ? Ignore the problem ? I can't find out the truth.

 

[Heisenberg]

Following a theme I've been posting about in other threads - the pervasive problem of the SoSuave membership:

"I'm not even into this girl... Why won't she like me "

 

[NeverChase]

mel, you really think she will tell me ?
I never go to sleep late, but yesterday I did and I saw her online until 2:30AM... I doubt she talks so much with any of her friends, and I think they all got jobs.
WTF do I do ? I really don't want to waste my time money and heart on a cheating slvt. Do I ignore it and keep dating her like everything's good? Dump her with no solid proof ? Both options seem bad to me.

 

[NeverChase]

Talked to her, she says she's always online to see if I am online, and she quits the chat to make me think she's not obsessed. I used to believe stuff like this, but now I don't feel she's that obsessed anymore.
I don't have any solid proof to just dump her but I don't want to just ignore this and risk finding out it was true.

 

[zorg198]

Keep this up and you will be next...she's cheating with another male and you are blind.

Go ghost now!!

 

[VikingKing]

dump her, you dont even like her.