LTR in question - wanna help me?

[GREAT WHITE SHARK]

Hello my friends DJS! It has been a long time since I posted for the last time.

Here I am, back to help and question.

My problem is:

In a ltr for 1 3/4 year, good girl, I like her, but now I started to notice qualities on her that I dont like, and wouldnt like to "marry" ?????????/ what?!! hahahah a person with those aspects of character (jealous, selfish).

Man, I see chicks walking around the streets, that are so hot! And I think about my gf, she is super pretty! and I sin to compare... who am I to do it?

I dont know,... how to decide to end or not?

Any one have been in this situation before?

Swim or Sink.

 

[Chewy Bagel]

Some girls can't hide all their flaws for very long. Eventually they show their true colors. Can you imagine if you were one of those AFC's who gets married after being with a girl for only 6 months? lol.

Your girl is who she is. All girls try to conform to what they think you want them to be when they first get with you. Eventually they change back to who they really are.

You've got to decide if you can deal with her flaws.

Good Luck!

CB

 

[drixsa]

please post more details on your relationship

it is hard to offer advice or an opionion on a situation that i cannot see let alone be told very little about

 

[mrbreeze]

This is a situation I have been in several times, it seems just as the new is wearing off all the other girls start to look really hot.

Intimacy is like that, the closer you get the more flaws you can see.

In my experience all women are at least a little selfish.

What worries me is the jealousy…
I won’t elaborate, it’s just a a bad sign that sets off red flags for me now, especially if there is no reason.