"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LTR Good in High School?

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antidonjuan

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Should I seek LTR with a girl until grade 12 (I'm in grade 9) or just flirt around with whole bunch of girls and no relationships? I am currently flirting with lots of girls in my grade and I really don't noe what I want.

Is LTR all that worth it in HIGH SCHOOL? WHich do you learn more: getting and keeping a girlfriend; or flirt around and improve your personality?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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take time till your confident and successful as a DJ and if you happen to find a gf then thats cool if you want it. but prolly just wait till your successful at moslty gettin girls your want attracted and then if you want go into some LTR for more xp on those i guess lol. if this is bad advice someone correct me
 
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When I was in high school I had friends who married their high school sweetheart, and then friends who had 3 or 4 girlfriends. I think from my Freshman year to Senior year I had 4 girlfriends.

I find that most of the time they dont last that long. I know a handful of high school kids and most of them have broken up 3 or 4 times with all different people.

Then once you go to college it is a whole different story. Depending on your area, many people move, so no one has LTR. Once senior year hits, and you graduate, many people move.

I mean if you are one of those select few who just finds the right girl, then great, if not, just date around. I had gf's for 2 months, 3 months, 6 months, etc etc. And EACH TIME I learned something new about ME and WOMEN.

I got a taste of many different personalities, and all of that stuff. This I think is good so you can actually get an idea of what you REALLY like.

I worked with a girl who had only one boyfriend and then finally broke up with him. I think she realized she was wasting her time. Do you really know if you are only with one person how other women are like?

I've learned much more dating more women when I was younger then I would have only dating one all 4 years in high school.

But to each his own.
 
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