....right guys i not posted much just done LOTS of reading.
my situation is this, been going out with this girl for about 4/5months, as per usual in the beginning it was all fresh etc loads of s3x and all that, now things have hit reality and the norm is setting in.
we went through a rough patch about a week ago where her and her ex bf met and they ended up arguing and then he rang the police on her saying she was going to top herself, which she wasnt, and she is training to be a nurse so she was worried and upset that she would get kicked off her course because somin might go on her record. So she been on a downer since then, and she went out last thursday and saw him out and ended up coming home crying etc and since all this she and her mates have been like saying they hate him and think he is a tw*t and all the rest. Is all this a false front???
Her last relationship was her longest, 18 months i think, and they went through a lot but split up, but last night she was texting him and she was telling me what was said and what she was saying etc and he said somin like he is in trouble with police and leaving his job and then she gets all down because things with him aint great, and i said look why do you care, she just seems to feel sorry for him and i have no idea why???
But besides all that last night we had a chat and realised that me and her need to be more independant of each other but bring back the fun freshness type thing, now she is going back to uni on sunday, perfect opportunity? I think so, but for the rest of the week I want to try and bring back the freshness and importantly all the s3x, and i ask how??? or will it come back with the time being apart?
Thanks for reading and hope i can find the way :rockon:
my situation is this, been going out with this girl for about 4/5months, as per usual in the beginning it was all fresh etc loads of s3x and all that, now things have hit reality and the norm is setting in.
we went through a rough patch about a week ago where her and her ex bf met and they ended up arguing and then he rang the police on her saying she was going to top herself, which she wasnt, and she is training to be a nurse so she was worried and upset that she would get kicked off her course because somin might go on her record. So she been on a downer since then, and she went out last thursday and saw him out and ended up coming home crying etc and since all this she and her mates have been like saying they hate him and think he is a tw*t and all the rest. Is all this a false front???
Her last relationship was her longest, 18 months i think, and they went through a lot but split up, but last night she was texting him and she was telling me what was said and what she was saying etc and he said somin like he is in trouble with police and leaving his job and then she gets all down because things with him aint great, and i said look why do you care, she just seems to feel sorry for him and i have no idea why???
But besides all that last night we had a chat and realised that me and her need to be more independant of each other but bring back the fun freshness type thing, now she is going back to uni on sunday, perfect opportunity? I think so, but for the rest of the week I want to try and bring back the freshness and importantly all the s3x, and i ask how??? or will it come back with the time being apart?
Thanks for reading and hope i can find the way :rockon: