"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

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One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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LTR cheating question

ljm

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Hello all,

Just a qucik question and one a group of mates and myself were discussing for a long period of time today....



What do you guys consider as cheating, or being cheated on when in an LTR?
 

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librito

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Cheating starts with kissing. That's how all sexual relashionships start. When a woman tells you ...I did not cheat, we only kissed....what she is really telling you is that you found out a few minutes or days before she fucs the guy and that she is not sorry that you caught her cheating because she really wanted to fuc the other man.
The date that women remember as the aniversary of the relationship is not the day you meet her but the day of the first kiss.
 

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librito said:
The date that women remember as the aniversary of the relationship is not the day you meet her but the day of the first kiss.
This is not always true. For me most relationships weren't considered "official" until well after the first kiss. Though it's different with every girl.

I'd agree that anything as far as far as kissing should be considered cheating. You shouldn't tolerate that. If you kissed another girl and your girlfriend knew about it, she would definitely give you sh!t about it so you better give her sh!t about it when she does that to someone other than you.
 

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librito said:
Cheating starts with kissing. That's how all sexual relashionships start. When a woman tells you ...I did not cheat, we only kissed....what she is really telling you is that you found out a few minutes or days before she fucs the guy and that she is not sorry that you caught her cheating because she really wanted to fuc the other man.
The date that women remember as the aniversary of the relationship is not the day you meet her but the day of the first kiss.

Emotional cheating starts in the head and heart long before physical cheating does. By the time she kisses him, she's ready to sleep with him.
 

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Emotional and physical cheating, while they are different, go hand in hand. If there is emotional cheating, it's a matter of time before the physical cheating.

But to answer your question, I don't think a relationship-ending crime has been committed until the physical cheating is proven. And physical cheating is ANY kind of inappropriate touching to me. If she does it, and I know she does it, she's OUT.

But like I said, it usually doesn't matter anyway.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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bigjohnson

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ljm said:
What do you guys consider as cheating, or being cheated on when in an LTR?
If you have to keep it secret, it's cheating.
 

Trajhenkhet01

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anything she can't or won't tell you about even when you have problems ;) all kidding aside once the physical part starts your gut should go off like fireworks as "things" start to seem out of place that used to be regular
 
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