"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LTR and siblings (girls sibling)

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I am curious... I am in a LTR with a girl who has siblings and quite a few.

How do you manage siblings in a relationship? A few time they made comments about how I am handling their sister, how I am building my relationship etc...

How you deal with your LTR sibilings
How you deal with them commenting on your relationships?
When they say good ? or wanna help you?
When they say ''bad'' and seek to involve themselves?
 
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If they are looking to involve that's kind of weird. Sounds like your girl might be bad mouthing you? Besides I suppose that's what a lot of woman do with sisters and or bros. I have 4 sisters so yeah I could see that.

If anything just say hey thanks for the advice and input. Now that I think about it I would probably resort to comedy or something funny. Or a lame typically blue pill response.
 
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hockeyfreak79 said:
If they are looking to involve that's kind of weird. Sounds like your girl might be bad mouthing you? Besides I suppose that's what a lot of woman do with sisters and or bros. I have 4 sisters so yeah I could see that.

If anything just say hey thanks for the advice and input. Now that I think about it I would probably resort to comedy or something funny. Or a lame typically blue pill response.
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In my case, I do expand her world view and push her limits a bit there and there and was told that it did make her conflict inside a bit.It's Only positive stuff to build a relationship but it does ask alot of work from her side. (since its not in her culture and background)

The siblings might get rant etc.. from her etc... or they might be jealous etc... They good people who also need their horizons to be expanded and build their self-confidence.

I am not worried about my girl or them... however, I don't want to miss opportunities of improving the situation... and I have no experience in dealing with siblings
 
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Just treat them like anyone else dude. Be respectful and friendly until situation calls otherwise. Any issues she has with her siblings. Let her sort them out. Unless she has an abusive brother or some otherissue
 
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