"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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LSD, Shrooms, DMT, Mescaline

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If you have ever done any of these amazing drugs. Then respond in this thread. Doing DMT made me realize that there is no such thing as death and what matters really is the internal Self and the outside world is all BS.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think some of the guys from Tool do DMT. What exactly is it?
 

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we all eat food said:
If you have ever done any of these amazing drugs. Then respond in this thread. Doing DMT made me realize that there is no such thing as death and what matters really is the internal Self and the outside world is all BS.
You see, this is why they say don't do this stuff. Hopefully, the effect will wear off soon.
 

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we all eat food said:
If you have ever done any of these amazing drugs. Then respond in this thread. Doing DMT made me realize that there is no such thing as death and what matters really is the internal Self and the outside world is all BS.
Isnt the outside world an extension of the internal self so to speak? If death doesnt exist then what happens?
 

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hey are shrooms bad for you?
i mean, will they **** u up like meth and coke?
or give u cancer like smoking?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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we all eat food said:
Doing DMT made me realize that there is no such thing as death and what matters really is the internal Self and the outside world is all BS.
That's all good and well until you have to pay the rent and put food in the fridge.
 

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short and simple, stop doing the drugs and get back to reality. Can't laze about in lah-lah land forever.
 

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Crazy Asian said:
hey are shrooms bad for you?
i mean, will they **** u up like meth and coke?
or give u cancer like smoking?
no, shrooms are not addictive at all, and you do them for different reasons to meth/coke etc
and as such you do not get the urge to repeat the experience often.
LSD and shrooms don't alter your mood like, meth/coke/heroin etc does, they amplify the emotion you are feeling at any point and hence can result in less than positive experience.

I haven't done acid or shrooms all that often but each time that I did there was at least one point during the 'trip' where I would become super paranoid and think that everyone was looking at me. Or I would take two steps and then become totally lost and on the verge of freaking out.

With psychedelics your reality changes so much (especially with high doses) that it just feels too weird to be constantly like that, hence another reason you dont get acid junkies.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Anything that causes you to be out of your normal, best functioning state is bad for you.

Now don't take that to mean I never use any drug because I do. I occasionally drink alcohol (yes, a drug as much as any other). Last night I even took a hydrocodone. But no one was here, and I just felt like goofing off. Did that hurt me in the long run? No. But had a friend called and needed me due to some freak emergency, I wouldn't have been able to help - at least safely.
 

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DrD77 said:
I think some of the guys from Tool do DMT. What exactly is it?
It's a hallucenogen that's extracted from the roots (the bark on the roots?) of a mimosa I think. I work with a guy who tried it and raved about it. Apparently it's one of the strongest out there.
 

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Drugs (some of them) don't make you stupid. In fact, for some people, certain drugs can be a catalyst for psychological/spiritual/emotional growth. I'm serious here.

I haven't tried most drugs you mention, and it's a shame they always get lumped together as the all-inclusive DRUGS. But I have extensive experience with mushrooms and have found them to be an incredible growth experience.

Some people get scared away after trying them. Often a person has internal issues that they are in denial of: the mushrooms might bring these issues to the surface. Then they blame the mushrooms because they can't ignore the issues anymore, and don't want to work through them. Often people take them with the wrong attitude as well (e.g. "Let's get f*cked up! vs. Let's have a deep, profound growth experience).

To form a better system of beliefs, you often have to break apart some of your current ones. When your current beliefs break down, this can leave you in a state worse than you were initially. But eventually, if you manage to form new and better beliefs, you will end up in a much better state than ever. Mushrooms can help with both the breaking down of bad & false beliefs, as well as the construction of good & true beliefs.

Mushrooms can help you to grow, but you will likely have to take them more than once (with quite a time interval between sessions -- you need time to reflect -- probably several months). You might need to get worse before you can get better. The alternative is stagnation.

Note: I do not wish to imply that mushrooms are the only path to such growth. Rather, they are a catalyst: what might otherwise take years can be accomplished in a few hours.
 

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I'd say just stick to marijuana if you do drugs. All the other drugs will just fvck you up over time. But, if you do cocaine, meth, herion, ecstacy... Do it every once in awhile.

Or better yet... Don't do drugs!! Cause, I've seen people smoke meth or crack for their first time. Next thing you know their addicts and can't stop.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DrD77 said:
I think some of the guys from Tool do DMT. What exactly is it?
No. All of the guys from Tool are drug free. They imbibe in alcohol (in abundance) but no illegal narcotics or stimulants.

However, they do prescribe to the teachings of Drunvalo Melchizedic and the Rebirthing techniques of Bob Frissell, which do teach about alternate realities through the use of natural hallucinagenics and meditation.

As info:

PROFILES OF PSYCHEDELIC DRUGS
DMT
 

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I've done just about everything excessively. Psychedelics are not for most people, I'd advise you to stay away from them.
 
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Most people grow out of the drug stage when they meet more responsibility in life and realize drugs and too much drinking will get in the way of their dreams and take the edge off of their intellect. Not to say that some responsible people will do drugs and drink, but they are very discrete and limited in their use. Of course people will use drugs if it can give them an advantage. Clear thinking, for the most part is not one of them. Marijuana is an effective, nonaddictive way of getting a good night's sleep if you don't want to get addicted to sleeping pills. Of course you would need to get the kind that makes you sleepy, not gets you hyper. As far as drug use in general, I would be very careful what you do, there are so many things that can go wrong at the most unexpected times, and you are putting yourself at risk many times when you are under the influence of anything that will, in turn, make it easier to make bad decisions.
 

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I have smoked DMT before. An intense experience I will never forget. If you ever have the chance - do it. Make sure you are in a safe environment. It will change your life.

I've also eaten shrooms on many occasions. Such beautiful experiences. For those who dare to explore the unknown, I salute you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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