"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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lriuzaki`s approach journal

lryuzaki00

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Hi guys!! i finally decided to start my approach journal and i`ll be glad to receive some feedback from you. Let`s get started.


Day 1: At the mall.

set#1: i was walking with two friends of mine and i spotted three nice hb(7,7 and a 6). i asked them to approach them by sitting nest to them and starting a conversation, and they did approach, but didnt talk to them. (i was the one with the most game, so i gave them the chance) . i was watching them from afar and i noticed that the girls werent so interested in them, so i decided to join the conversation.

ME: Hi guys!! i see you are a bit shy about talking to these three babes. what`s the problem, dont you see she`s (one of them) smiling at us??

A FRIEND: but we don`t know them, dude??

ME: soo..., is that the problem??... let me help you there!! and i introduced myself to the girls and they gave me their names and then i introduced them to my friends!

And then a little convo:

ME: hey, (i said to the hottest one) me and my friend here were having a little discussion about wether or not he`d look cool with his hair dyed in blond. i`d like to get a female opinion. what do you say??

HER: Ohhh, no way. He`d look horrible that way.

ME: then, how do you think i`d look with blonde hair??... fast forward >>



the girls had to leave, cuz they were waiting for someone!!... bad luck for them:cry:

Set#2:

i spotted this hot babe (9) buying a sandwich and a soda. The main reason for approaching this one was just to practice body language and voice tonality.

ME: hi, my name is LR, what`s yours??

HER: Hi my name is #$%( i forgot):confused:

ME: you know, i have a friend here with me that thinks you`re absolutely beautiful, but he`s too shy to come and say it himself (all this with a relaxed voice tone and pose).

HER: ooh really!! well, tell him that i said thnks!!!

ME: Hmmm, i`d rather bring him here so you can thank him in person (made a sly smile, pulled my friend in front of her, stepped back and watched)

my friend gave up the conversation, so i took over and i said (looking straight in her eyes, serious face):

ME: you know, my friend said that you`re really really mean!!

HER: (surprised look on her face) and why`s that?

ME: because the way you dress up and stand in front of the counter makes him wet his boxers!!

HER: stunned!! mouth half open!!

fast forward>>

HER: i`m sorry guys but i`m married (and she showed the ring)

ME: ooh, that`s a cool thing. i think you`re best suited for me, cuz i like married women.

HER: she laughed and said; omg, you cant like a married women, that`s just ridiculous!! (still smiling).

ME: well, i do!!

HER: well, i love my husband. And you shouldn`t be flirting on a married woman.

ME: Says who??

HER: Elizabeth (her)

ME: well, take care then, Elizabeth. Dont blame me for making you nervous!!:cool: (Sly smile) and i left!

Set#3

This one was a failed attempt becuse i freaked out!! i approached a set of 3 gals and i realized that the hb8 that i was interested the most and the one i wanted to start the conversation with, was a little too young (looked like 12 years old, but she looked older from the back). I touched her shoulder and i was about to say hi, when she looked back and i realized she was (or looked) too young. i just asked for a direction and inmediately left (which later on i realized was a stupid decision).

Set#4 THE POWER OF ****Y AND FUNNY!!!

This one (hb 8.5) was maybe in a rush, cuz three guys tried to approach her before me, and she didn`t even look back..

ME: HEY SEXY!!!

HER: kept walking and didnt look back.

ME: HEY, I`M TALKING TO YOU... OR, DO I MAKE YOU NERVOUS???

SHE: turns back and look at me, surprised!! (i make a sly smile). she smiles back and told me she`s in a hurry, and left.

After i said this, some of the girls and guys around me were looking at me like ''WTF?''... then i left!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wow! That is an excellent thing to say when a girl tells you she's married. A very C+F answer. You can exit without looking like a chump, or blow through her test if she's lying with that.
 
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