"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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LR. Sometimes it's just that easy

TheMonkeyKing

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Went to pub watching a bit of football. Was about to head home at last orders and I spy a cute little Spanish chick in the corner checking me out. I go over and conversation starts flowing. She staying in a plush local hotel for work.

I suggest we get a late drink and after a few card games in the late bar we continue back to the hotel room where she's got crates of beer.

One thing leads to another and she's climbing all over me like a rabid monkey. This girl is too cute. Five foot nothing to my 6'2 and a real live wire. Probably a 7, but a lot of potential for improvement given some healthier living.

Number 77 in the bag. Would definitely see this one again. We'll see. Sometimes it's just the chance encounters that yield best results. Don't let opportunity run away from you men.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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