"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LR: Romantic dinner or fvck you up the ass ?

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This happened 3 nights ago , but i didnt have time to write it.But ill write it now. Im writing this because i used some new things that worked.

I went out on very crowded club with my two wings. As soon as i step in , i see a three set. I open them with " Last episode of Starwars was a blast , Morpheous kicked Lastois from spaceship "(i never watched starwars so i made up names).

They started giggling.

I continued conversation saying that they look like sweet , and i was there to meet them. Anyway , i got into the state , excused myself and i told them that i'll be back in some minutes.

Approached 3 more sets with " Whats up ". 3 rejections. Probably because my vocal projection was bad. So i catch with one wing , and we start singing loud and having fun to get our voices ready for the approaches :D. As we separate , i see some old girl friends.
I go to them , stay a bit with them , have some fun and i see my wing with a two set , one of them touching his chest. I run to her and say " dont you ever touch my boyfriends chest again "*taking her hand out of his chest and throwing it* in gay accent. They all burst laughing , he introduces me to them , we are having fun and all but that conversation isnt leading nowhere so i eject.

And there is see this hot girl , exactly what TIM says "BLUEPRINT GIRL".

HB stats:
Taller than me , probably 190cm
Long straight hairs , full lips
Normal tits , big fvcking ass
Peacocked , shining .

I open her with " Hi im DTP , i had to meet you ". Total loud voice , dominance , and sexual tension .

HB: I know your name , i saw you with my friends over there.
DTP: Fvck , you must be a stalker. Anyway , what was your name ?
HB: giggling "lets call her Stacy "
Stacy: Do you always talk to people like this?
DTP: "i didnt know what to say here , so .. " Do you always come here. I havent seen you around.
Stacy:No , i dont go out often.
DTP: Ohh , nice . So you're like a little dork trapped on basement playing videogames :D
Stacy: laughing , punching me straight on the face . Lol nono , im kidding .Punching me on the arm playfully.No , but lately , i've been very busy(qualifying)

Anyway , the conversation went well , kino was there hitting hardcore , sexual tension was sparking.

I throw on her Jeffy's routine.

Listen , we can go to a french restaurant , sit by the sea on the romantic light of candles and moon , eat the best lobsters with the greatest champagne ever. There i can show you my poem that i wrote for you , telling you all my emotions that are in my heart. There will come an old lady that i sent to give you freshest flowers that smell like the spring itself. Then we can go on the beach , buy some balloons and release them free.They would fly together , like our souls.

This is putting her on a emotional roller coast :D.

Then we can write our names on the sand and swear our love to each other.
This , or i can fvck you up the ass in that bathroom .


She was surprised , turned on , feeling sexual tension.

She started laughing.

Anyway , we keep conversation going for a little bit more , and i ask her

Are you hungry ?
A little bit
Wanna eat the french fries of glory ?
I make the best french fries on the world. Even after 5 years when you eat french fries , you will remember me. Lets go to my house. Im on chefs mood :D

Ok , just wait , let me talk to my friends for a minute.

I have won her friends over before :D , so im sure that they wont stop her .

She goes there , grabs her coat , i go tell my wings that im leaving and we leave.

Anyway , the second that we get in , the same story as always.
I put my hand on the back of her head and on her back , and slam her on the wall (she doesnt get hurt because my hands are there) and start making out with her. This makes girls very turned on because is DOMINANCE.
Anyway , makeout , lead her to my room and we start undressing eachother.
We finish our session , we do it again. She falls asleep.I sleep too.

On the morning , i cooked her the french fries that i promised. They are really great . I make them in a special way. Ill write about it more later.

FIN :p
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

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Daddy The Pimp said:
This happened 3 nights ago , but i didnt have time to write it.But ill write it now. Im writing this because i used some new things that worked.

I went out on very crowded club with my two wings. As soon as i step in , i see a three set. I open them with " Last episode of Starwars was a blast , Morpheous kicked Lastois from spaceship "(i never watched starwars so i made up names).

They started giggling.

I continued conversation saying that they look like sweet , and i was there to meet them. Anyway , i got into the state , excused myself and i told them that i'll be back in some minutes.

Approached 3 more sets with " Whats up ". 3 rejections. Probably because my vocal projection was bad. So i catch with one wing , and we start singing loud and having fun to get our voices ready for the approaches :D. As we separate , i see some old girl friends.
I go to them , stay a bit with them , have some fun and i see my wing with a two set , one of them touching his chest. I run to her and say " dont you ever touch my boyfriends chest again "*taking her hand out of his chest and throwing it* in gay accent. They all burst laughing , he introduces me to them , we are having fun and all but that conversation isnt leading nowhere so i eject.

And there is see this hot girl , exactly what TIM says "BLUEPRINT GIRL".

HB stats:
Taller than me , probably 190cm
Long straight hairs , full lips
Normal tits , big fvcking ass
Peacocked , shining .

I open her with " Hi im DTP , i had to meet you ". Total loud voice , dominance , and sexual tension .

HB: I know your name , i saw you with my friends over there.
DTP: Fvck , you must be a stalker. Anyway , what was your name ?
HB: giggling "lets call her Stacy "
Stacy: Do you always talk to people like this?
DTP: "i didnt know what to say here , so .. " Do you always come here. I havent seen you around.
Stacy:No , i dont go out often.
DTP: Ohh , nice . So you're like a little dork trapped on basement playing videogames :D
Stacy: laughing , punching me straight on the face . Lol nono , im kidding .Punching me on the arm playfully.No , but lately , i've been very busy(qualifying)

Anyway , the conversation went well , kino was there hitting hardcore , sexual tension was sparking.

I throw on her Jeffy's routine.

Listen , we can go to a french restaurant , sit by the sea on the romantic light of candles and moon , eat the best lobsters with the greatest champagne ever. There i can show you my poem that i wrote for you , telling you all my emotions that are in my heart. There will come an old lady that i sent to give you freshest flowers that smell like the spring itself. Then we can go on the beach , buy some balloons and release them free.They would fly together , like our souls.

This is putting her on a emotional roller coast :D.

Then we can write our names on the sand and swear our love to each other.
This , or i can fvck you up the ass in that bathroom .


She was surprised , turned on , feeling sexual tension.

She started laughing.

Anyway , we keep conversation going for a little bit more , and i ask her

Are you hungry ?
A little bit
Wanna eat the french fries of glory ?
I make the best french fries on the world. Even after 5 years when you eat french fries , you will remember me. Lets go to my house. Im on chefs mood :D

Ok , just wait , let me talk to my friends for a minute.

I have won her friends over before :D , so im sure that they wont stop her .

She goes there , grabs her coat , i go tell my wings that im leaving and we leave.

Anyway , the second that we get in , the same story as always.
I put my hand on the back of her head and on her back , and slam her on the wall (she doesnt get hurt because my hands are there) and start making out with her. This makes girls very turned on because is DOMINANCE.
Anyway , makeout , lead her to my room and we start undressing eachother.
We finish our session , we do it again. She falls asleep.I sleep too.

On the morning , i cooked her the french fries that i promised. They are really great . I make them in a special way. Ill write about it more later.

FIN :p
Have you read "Sex God Method" by Daniel Rose? He talks about sexual dominance amongst other "magic buttons" when it comes to what excites women in the bedroom.

Anyways, very good work, keep it up mate. I have a copy of the book if you'd like it. By far the best book on sex i've seen.
 

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Lust said:
Have you read "Sex God Method" by Daniel Rose? He talks about sexual dominance amongst other "magic buttons" when it comes to what excites women in the bedroom.

Anyways, very good work, keep it up mate. I have a copy of the book if you'd like it. By far the best book on sex i've seen.
No brother i havent read it. I would like it. If you can send me a copy on PM would be great. Whats all about , is a pickup book about how to make girls more attracted or what ?

Thanks
 

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No brother i havent read it. I would like it. If you can send me a copy on PM would be great. Whats all about , is a pickup book about how to make girls more attracted or what ?

Thanks
Talks about the psychology of sex and why sex is so much more than just physical stimulation, and why the psychological aspect is so important, yet so often ignored. Things like dominance, emotion, immersion etc...

You can also take it out of the bedroom context and into your normal interactions with women, i'll try and pm a link to you.
 

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Can I suggest a piece of new terminology

"The Silly/Funny Method"

I too believe it has potential.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Almost too silly for my tastes, but hey, whatever is your style :D

Now what about those french fries!?
 

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Lust said:
Talks about the psychology of sex and why sex is so much more than just physical stimulation, and why the psychological aspect is so important, yet so often ignored. Things like dominance, emotion, immersion etc...

You can also take it out of the bedroom context and into your normal interactions with women, i'll try and pm a link to you.
I hate that he calls it the "sex god method" because i think that gives guys the wrong idea (i've suggested the book to many guys and i think a lot of them don't even check it out because of the title).... Especially since the crew he belongs to are all anti-method and natural gamers... it just doesn't make sense to call it a "method"... but i guess that was done for marketing reasons?

it's definitely the best book on sex i've ever read, and it doesn't even really go into technique - it mostly just looks at the psychology and trusting your animal instincts...

it works!

strangely enough, i was already doing most of what the book teaches (just minus the emotional aspect, which i have since started using, and have witnessed the power of having a woman cry into my shoulder while at the same time having a volcanic orgasm.)

i can't suggest this book enough...
 

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Huffman said:
Now what about those french fries!?
Lol , its all about using fresh potatoes and using the salt properly. I put the salt before starting to fry them. Let them suck the salt , then i start frying.
I let them fry until they look like gold :D.

Its more about how you introduce them. I put the frame that they greatest and they have to believe it :D.

After all , its not about french fries at all :p. Its about giving them an excuse to come over *devilish grin*.

Edit: uh, and don't forget. Peel them thin. Make them look good. Thats an important part too:p.
 

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DTP, I'm curious about the physiological part of your attraction method.

What are your physical stats?

Your height and how much do you weigh? Well built with broad shoulders?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well I really like your seduction part, after getting the girl into your house.. its so quick that she doesn't even get the time to think. Its another good anti-LMR tactic.
 

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Alle_Gory said:
DTP, I'm curious about the physiological part of your attraction method.

What are your physical stats?

Your height and how much do you weigh? Well built with broad shoulders?
Im well build with broad shoulders but i dont look muscular at all.
Im 183 cm and i have 65 kg. Trust me , looks has nothing to do with it. As long as you are clean and fresh , your genetics doesnt matter. I have friends much more better looking that have nice mindset but don't get laid as much as i do.

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Thanks brother :D

daygameguy said:
Well I really like your seduction part, after getting the girl into your house.. its so quick that she doesn't even get the time to think. Its another good anti-LMR tactic.
These are some of the benefits of natural game. Girl partly knows why she's coming there. I cant remember when i got LMR.I know you're a Mystery fan. I was too. My signature was MYSTERY RULES. I loved every part of his theory. But switching to natural is a whole new level. I recomand you to start with natural game.
 

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Daddy The Pimp said:
Im well build with broad shoulders but i dont look muscular at all.
Im 183 cm and i have 65 kg. Trust me , looks has nothing to do with it. As long as you are clean and fresh , your genetics doesnt matter. I have friends much more better looking that have nice mindset but don't get laid as much as i do.
So its all just verbal skills and trying to figure out what makes her tick through conversation then moving on to the physical once she bites.

What do you mean by clean & fresh. Sharp appearance?
 

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Daddy The Pimp said:
These are some of the benefits of natural game. Girl partly knows why she's coming there. I cant remember when i got LMR.I know you're a Mystery fan. I was too. My signature was MYSTERY RULES. I loved every part of his theory. But switching to natural is a whole new level. I recomand you to start with natural game.
I already have started being less scripted and more natural. Natural is the most effective way to do stuff, takes less time, less hassle.

But I still stand by my argument, newbies can't be told to just BE natural. You have to understand what works and THEN act on instinct.
 

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Alle_Gory said:
So its all just verbal skills and trying to figure out what makes her tick through conversation then moving on to the physical once she bites.

What do you mean by clean & fresh. Sharp appearance?
No , its all about VALUE. Its all about expressing that you are higher value than she is. The moment that you do this , she will be naturally attracted to you. Its a normal process. Than , you can move to seduction part , where its easy by escalating.

About appearance , im saying you should just look good. Well groomed , dress good , clean ... If you're not YUCK than you're OK. Just look yourself in the mirror and ask yourself " if i was a girl , would i fvck this man ? " if your answer is YES than cool , if its NO , work on yourself , get new haircut , start working out and get to that point. But tight game , solid confidence and strong mindset is the key of everything in life , not just women.

daygameguy said:
I already have started being less scripted and more natural. Natural is the most effective way to do stuff, takes less time, less hassle.

But I still stand by my argument, newbies can't be told to just BE natural. You have to understand what works and THEN act on instinct.
Get Blueprint Decoded , Flawless Natural , Jeffy Show and Transformations.
They are all gold. They will completely de attach you from routines game. And they will help you on other areas of life too. Also , you'll see pickup as fun , not as "making progress" or "getting this girl".

About newbies , i dont know. Maybe its a bit difficult , but if they can transfer that mindset straight to their brain , they wont have any problem.




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Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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I cant help but think the "romantic dinner or fvck you up the ass" comment would go down very badly with some girls.

Obviously in DTP's case it did work...but im sure if we all went out and tried that next time were chatting to a girl in a bar/club, most of us would come back to this forum having failed miserably.

Maybe its delivery...maybe it has to be the right girl, and your vibing with her...Im probably being very negative...I guess im not at the stage where I could pull that line off. But respect to daddy the pimp, thats a hell of a success story ;)
 

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I cant help but think the "romantic dinner or fvck you up the ass" comment would go down very badly with some girls.

Obviously in DTP's case it did work...but im sure if we all went out and tried that next time were chatting to a girl in a bar/club, most of us would come back to this forum having failed miserably.

Maybe its delivery...maybe it has to be the right girl, and your vibing with her...Im probably being very negative...I guess im not at the stage where I could pull that line off. But respect to daddy the pimp, thats a hell of a success story ;)
Thanks man.

True. I wouldnt recommand this to inexperienced guys. You need high calibration , no outcome dependence and "i dont give a fvck" written on your forehead.

Its all about how you set up the frame. If you set up this frame , you can say anything you want to the girl. Anything. On other hand , you can set the frame of the shy guy , and when you say something like this , the girl will freak off.

Also , the way you say it plays a huge role in the response. If you're waiting for her response , you loose . You should just say it like anything else normal , and continue conversation.

DaddyThePimp
 

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Daddy The Pimp said:
I went out on very crowded club with my two wings. As soon as i step in , i see a three set. I open them with " Last episode of Starwars was a blast , Morpheous kicked Lastois from spaceship "(i never watched starwars so i made up names).
I just don't see how talking about Star Wars would go over well at all. I would think the girls would laugh politely and then talk about how that was the strangest approach ever after you left, laughing at your expense. I guess it doesn't matter with your type of frame. GJ with the "romantic dinner or fvck you up the ass" line tho. That is epic.
 

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46and2aheadofme said:
I just don't see how talking about Star Wars would go over well at all. I would think the girls would laugh politely and then talk about how that was the strangest approach ever after you left, laughing at your expense. I guess it doesn't matter with your type of frame. GJ with the "romantic dinner or fvck you up the ass" line tho. That is epic.
That opener was said in the most nerd way i could come up with.
But did they think that i was a nerd ? Hell no. I fvcking lord the club.
Im the king. And there's no way i can fail or i can look like a low value nerd or anything.They knew i was just fvcking with them.Also , my sub communication (body language,vocal projection , tonality) is solid. For this reason i can open with almost .. anything. On RSD guys use the opener " hi , i like salad " , said in retarded way. I used that too. Its very cool :D. So , it doesnt matter what you say as long as you have solid subcommunication and give value.

Thanks
 
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