"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bonhomme

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Take a pic of yourself that shows your best feature.
That would be the back of my head.

Good ideas, Eric. I wouldn't have thought gals could be so bloody gullible, but a good mack can engage the fantasy factor, no doubt. :up: Some of the gals there DO look like easy action for confident guys.

Actually, I could use a newer pic or three. Just about all the digital pics of me were take when I was too skinny. Rendered obsolete by some effective bodybuilding.

The other thing is that I've paid little attention to the Myspace thing, and have very few messages and a small friends list (real friends, no pop stars who don't really know me from Adam and what not). So the profile may be effectively poisoned by my not being a Myspace ***** (chuckling).
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ERIC,

good to see a fellow DJer who utilizes the internet to its fullest potential.

Guys who think that 'browsing' on the internet is 'gay' just haven't earned the self-respect to not care what other people think of their actions.

I've not yet put a profile up at myspace. Before I do, how is myspace for Canada? I know it is ridiculously full of young nubile sluts in the states, particularly Cali.
 

ER!C L!VE

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I just did a browse in Myspace for Canada and found 2387 girls ages 18-29 who are there for dating.
 

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Eric,

It's a good story, but sounds like an advertisement. You are linking us to your site that makes you money, right? So there's a profit motive?

Also, the asian girl in the hat pic is clearly a professional shot. Are you saying you banged a model/actress who puts up ads with her professional headshot?

How about a pic of you to make it more believable. It's good marketing, anyway, you know?

/* If it walks like a duck, and talks like a duck ... shoot it. Ducks are good eatin' */
 

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Originally posted by iveyleeger
Eric,

You are linking us to your site that makes you money, right? So there's a profit motive?
Yep.

Originally posted by iveyleeger

Also, the asian girl in the hat pic is clearly a professional shot. Are you saying you banged a model/actress who puts up ads with her professional headshot?
Naw, she's just a regular girl. That's one of her senior photos.

Originally posted by iveyleeger

How about a pic of you to make it more believable. It's good marketing, anyway, you know?
There's a pic of me floating around here somewhere. I'm kinda goofy lookin' :p

Get Busy Now! :woo:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by ER!C L!VE
Eh, I typed it fast. When we were in person she'd light up.. On the phone her voice would perk up and she'd ask questions.

How is tenderz? You become a full blown porn site yet?

Yep! It's making money. :p


You said you were messaging a bunch of broads on myspace. What kind of emails are you sending them? ****y/funny stuff, or what?

check out http://tenderz.net/forum it's free.. here's my post from there:

How I do it..

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Myspace is fairly easy to figure out.

1. Get some great pics of yourself.

2. Copy a studly guy's profile (you know, the guy who's got all the girls leaving him messages). Just copy his wording and make your site VERY similar to his. ****, you could copy it word for word if you really wanted to.... I'd try to keep it real tho - but copy his style and word choices and jokes or whatever sticks out to you.

3. When your profile is complete, hit up every hot girl in your area - I'd advice going for every different type of girl out there. Add them, don't ask to be added

4. Shoot her an email saying something about her personality or that you like her style or something along those lines. **You could tell her she misspelled a word if you really wanted to :p. Then, if she reacts positively to you with a lol or something like that, banter back and fourth for about 1-5 emails and ask her for her phone number. Try to get her to meet with you in person ASAP. Meet up with her at a local mall's coffee shop, a bar, wherever.


**EDIT: I wrote this months ago, so I've changed what type of emails I send to girls. I tell them they're cuties and compliment them.

5. Talk with her and if you're vibing, you'll know it. You can usually take them back to your place and bang them that nite.

Cheers!
Hey Eric. It'd be helpful if you provided me a link to your Myspace profile. I'm not interested in copying any of it, but just to get some ideas about my profile. I haven't pulled any chicks from Myspace yet, but I did get some good replies, they just didn't go anywhere. You can pm it to me if you don't want to post it. Thanks.
 

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DUDE...........

That site is THE SH!T! About 36 hours on there now and I have like 25 HOT 18-22s in my friends list. Talked to 2 qt 18 y/os today while at work.

Haven't pulled anyone from there yet, but I'm still on the learning curve.

THANK YOU, ERIC! YOU MADE MY WEEK BY TURNING ME ON TO THAT SITE!

gixx
 

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Re: DUDE...........

Originally posted by gixxer
That site is THE SH!T! About 36 hours on there now and I have like 25 HOT 18-22s in my friends list. Talked to 2 qt 18 y/os today while at work.

Haven't pulled anyone from there yet, but I'm still on the learning curve.

THANK YOU, ERIC! YOU MADE MY WEEK BY TURNING ME ON TO THAT SITE!

gixx
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That's what condoms are for, bro. Plus, an 18 y/o girl has been around a lot less than your average 28 y/o

gixx
 

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I give much respect to Eric! He didn't waste any time getting down to it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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