"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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LR: My First MILF

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I layed my first MILF tonight!

She's a lady from work who has been flirting with me non-stop for months. I was dating someone for awhile, but we broke up a few weeks ago, so I decided I needed to go ahead and scratch that one off the list of cool things to do.

It's really amazing how much things can change in a year. A year ago I had only been with one girl, and now I have to tell myself to slow down because I'm starting to lose track (really. I kind of feel like a ****ty guy if I lose track of the girls I've laid because I don't see myself as a "player" and don't want to).

It's all pretty simple too (getting laid, that is). The only BIG difference between me now and me a year ago is that I'm unafraid to just lean in and kiss a girl. It used to be I could tell a girl was into me, but I was afraid to make the move. I would always wait for the perfect opportunity to present itself (which never happened) so I ended up alone.

Now, if I can tell a girl is digging on me I will finally just grab my balls, lean in, and kiss her. You can literally do this to a girl while she is mid-sentence and she'll forget whatever she was talking about and make out with you. It's what she's been waiting for anyhow.

TGIF my friends!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Here's something wierd that happened right after I got done with this MILF:

So when she leaves i call up a buddy of mine to see what's going on. He and a bunch of my friends are chilling at his place. So I tell him on the phone what happened because it was a pretty funny story.

So I jump in my car and head out. I get there and everyone in the room starts clapping and saying I'm their hero. Turns out (he was really high) my friend told EVERYONE what I was just doing.

Which would have been fine if it was all dudes, but there were about 4 girls from our group there. I don't want the girls in our group to know about my playerish ways, because bragging about who you're having sex with is (in my mind) a sure fire way to have girls think you're a shallow horn dog like all other guys. It's just not classy. And I wouldn't mind getting together with some of these chicks later on.

So here's the wierd part, I show up and these girls KNOW that 30 minutes before I was banging a hot older lady. Well this one hb8 is ALL OVER me the second I get there. Getting real close and completely monopolizing my time. Kind of leans in at one point in a way where I could have easily kissed her (which I would have done if I hadn't JUST been with another woman).

The question is, why is she all over me? Why would me being with another woman turn her on? How does that work? Usually I can pretty well understand a girl's motives in what she's doing most of the time. But this one threw me through a loop. All the girls definately looked at me in a new light (at first glance you wouldn't think that I get laid as often as I do, and I never tell the girls in the group about how often I get laid) but I thought it was odd it kind of turned this one girl on.
 
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(at first glance you wouldn't think that I get laid as often as I do, and I never tell the girls in the group about how often I get laid) bn.
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why is that because you dont dress like a 'player' or your not good looking?
 
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social proof

The hb8 was all over you because of the social proof factor. Another woman wanted you so she typically probably said to herself "Hmm, if she wants him then he must really know what he is doing" and thus started flirting with you. Though you may not like to be viewed as a player, I've found that women knowing that other women want you is a huge advantage which is likely why many married guys or guys in relationships get to have their cake and eat it too while many single guys are completely shut out.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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mackdaddy27 said:
why is that because you dont dress like a 'player' or your not good looking?
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I dress like a rock musician (mainly because I am a rock musician). I'm certainly not ugly, but I'm overweight. I'm that really funny chubby guy in the group who most people just assume never gets laid. Except I do get laid. I just don't do it with girls in my social circle that much, and never introduce my friends to the girls I'm banging (hence why the girls are mostly in the dark about it). Most of the dudes know what I'm up to, but I tend to try not to talk about this type of thing when I'm around the girls (bragging about banging chicks seems sleezy to me, and my whole game is about being classy).

The MILF is early 40's with a better body than most girls my age.
 
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The hb8 was all over you because of the social proof factor. Another woman wanted you so she typically probably said to herself "Hmm, if she wants him then he must really know what he is doing" and thus started flirting with you. Though you may not like to be viewed as a player, I've found that women knowing that other women want you is a huge advantage which is likely why many married guys or guys in relationships get to have their cake and eat it too while many single guys are completely shut out.
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DING DING DING!!! this man is right on the money!!!
 
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Wow, she is so old she probably can't even get pregnant anymore!! Now that is old! More power to you if that is what you are into.
 
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