"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LR: Married 46 y/o

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The 46 y/o came over again yesterday for lunch. She brought Chinese take-out, beer, and several bags of groceries. She ended up staying about nine hours. I'd say at least two hours of that time was nothing but blowj0b. I've never had that much oral in one day. My d!ck is sore. I've got her swallowing now, too. I think that's new for her. She was also wearing new lingerie she bought for me, and said she had ordered more. We're still using condoms, but I think that rule is getting close to being broken.

I've never been with a marathon bj-giver, but here is a reddit thread about that topic: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1djnfb/whats_the_longest_*******_youve_gotten/

I post on a lot of the 'money doesn't matter' threads, and this girl falls in line with that idea, too. She has a good job, plenty of money, and doesn't care that I don't. She's outspent me 10:1 easily, and does not mind at all.
 
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