"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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LR: HB Taiwanese

Xysen

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I felt like I wasn’t getting any better, all these approaches weren’t getting me as far as I had hoped. I was approaching nonstop for a couple months, getting a ridiculous amount of numbers, but not a lot of day 2’s. I call up the girl and can’t remember who she is. My approaches were generally very short, and were just # closes, I wasn’t going for the instadate as much as I should. Although when I did, they generally went pretty well. After getting some inspiration and deciding I need to work on other parts of my game, I shouldn’t just leave as soon as I feel uncomfortable. So I decide to go out for about two hours and sarge, see where it goes.
I see HB Taiwanese get on the train, I was sitting down, and was actually a little nervous. I tend to get nervous on my first few approaches of the day. Anyway I justify it by saying I’m sitting down, and don’t want to lose my seat. I say if we get off at the same stop I have to for sure. Well, it ends up that she gets off at the same stop as me, so I figure, I must.
I go up to her, and say “Hey, I think you’re really cute.” She barely speaks any English and has only been here for 1 month. She is also leaving to go back in 2 days; a # close would be worthless. We walk for a little bit and I tell her lets go get coffee. She refuses. I talk for a little while longer, and than say lets get coffee again, she refuses, I say “come on, it will be fun”, I than grab her hand and we go to get some coffee.
Well we are at Starbucks, and sit down. Talk for a bit, and I kiss her. After about 15 minutes, I’m tired of Starbucks. I suggest we go to the park, and she’s a little hesitant but we go anyway. We’re walking around, and I tell her I want to see where she’s staying. My logistics are bad so I figured hers would at least be better than mine. But my idea gets better. I decide we should walk there, it is about 3 and a half miles. Every few blocks, I would just stop and we would make out. After about a mile and a half, the train sounds like a good idea. We get off at her stop, and we get to her place after a little more walking. As soon as I’m there I sit on her bed, and tell her to come here.
We start making out, and she gave me LMR saying we just met. Her shirt came off pretty easy, but the pants were very difficult. The total time from the initial meeting to the lay was about 3 hours.


Things that helped me get the lay, I’m sure I missed:
Persistence
Dominance
Actually going out and approaching
Certainty
Leading
Good Body Language – We weren’t able to communicate with words too easily because she spoke very little English


I would like to thank Woodhaven, Sebastian and Spirit Fingers for all their help.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Alphathree

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That's kickass Xysen. You're the man.

Asian girls are awesome. Sometimes it's a turn off if their english isn't very good. A month ago I had to turn down an HB8 Japanese girl that just couldn't communicate well.

I'm actually quite surprised that you pushed through all of that resistance you described. If you had asked for advice I probably would've said "back off, let her miss you for a little while". Obviously you know what you're doing...
 

Xysen

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Originally posted by Alphathree
That's kickass Xysen. You're the man.

Asian girls are awesome. Sometimes it's a turn off if their english isn't very good. A month ago I had to turn down an HB8 Japanese girl that just couldn't communicate well.

I'm actually quite surprised that you pushed through all of that resistance you described. If you had asked for advice I probably would've said "back off, let her miss you for a little while". Obviously you know what you're doing...
Well, I pushed so far already that if I didn't get the lay, I knew I wouldn't get a day 2. I wouldn't get anything. She was a really shy girl, so backing off can sometimes be bad. It depends on the situation, obviously in the one I was in backing off isn't a great idea. I didn't describe it, but the biggest resistance was getting her pants off. She's a good girl, and if she stayed longer I would have made a relationship of some sort out of her.
 
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