"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well boys, the title says it all. Today on March 28, 2008 your very own Supremo lost his virginity.

This isn't an actual Lay Report with juicy details, but I feel the right to brag a little.

Thanks to all who posted to my questions, and that's it.

"So I went with the flow
It went better than I planned
Finally found somethin better than cumming in my hand
They say you *** twice the first time,
and now I understand,
I came once inside of her,
then I became a man."
-Murs "Freak These Tales"

Supremo
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Lol... Congrats, pal! ;)
 

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*applauds* Nice work bro.

No details at all? :p
 

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SinJester said:
No details at all? :p
Aight well here's a couple, only since I mislead people by the title.
-It was both our first times, so it really hurt her at first but then after like 20 minutes she was kind of getting into it.
-I now know why people don't like condoms. It actually took work for me to finish.
-We did missionary the whole time, and it was just not at all what I expected, kind of hard to do.
-Even though my room was cold, after like 2 minutes we were both extremely sweaty and after about 10 minutes she took the covers off (sweet).

I dunno, what else do you guys want to know?
 

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Hmmm how long have you known her?
In the long run will this be a cherished experience?
Was it fun for you?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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congratulations, good for you. It sounds like you did very well for a first time.

fwiw, next time spend that 20 minutes getting her ready with your hands first. Take your time, go slow, until she is wet and begging. Every gf I've ever had tells me that guys are always in too big of a rush.

Fvcking, fighting, and dancing all share the same single most important criteria, the difference between doing it well and doing it poorly - hip movement. Move your hips.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Supremo said:
Well boys, the title says it all. Today on March 28, 2008 your very own Supremo lost his virginity.

This isn't an actual Lay Report with juicy details, but I feel the right to brag a little.

Thanks to all who posted to my questions, and that's it.

"So I went with the flow
It went better than I planned
Finally found somethin better than cumming in my hand
They say you *** twice the first time,
and now I understand,
I came once inside of her,
then I became a man."
-Murs "Freak These Tales"

Supremo
Congradulations, but; I have to ask...

Above you said you came once inside of her?! I hope you didn't bust a nut inside of the b!tch to get her pregnat!! Even when I am wearing a condom I never bust in the condom while inside her. I'm getting my d!ck the fvck out! :crackup:

Anyways Congrats. to your success!

OOPS! my bad I didn't pay attention good enough to see that you were quoting someone
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Congradulations, but; I have to ask...

Above you said you came once inside of her?! I hope you didn't bust a nut inside of the b!tch to get her pregnat!! Even when I am wearing a condom I never bust in the condom while inside her. I'm getting my d!ck the fvck out! :crackup:

Anyways Congrats. to your success!

OOPS! my bad I didn't pay attention good enough to see that you were quoting someone
haha, I think he just got that from somebody else.

Edit: Didn't see you corrected yourself.

Hey....how do you delete a post? lol
 

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Stacks Of Terror said:
Hmmm how long have you known her? Known her since high school started, didn't start dating til this year though
In the long run will this be a cherished experience? Fo sho, first time for both of us
Was it fun for you? Is this even a real question?
ARrocket said:
So, how did you lead up to this?Just fooling around in my room, and I grabbed a condom and said "Lets only do this if we're both ready, I want this to be something you're gonna wake up in the morning, still feeling the rush, and smile." A little spinoff of something I read on Mystery's LMR busters, not that I really needed it.
Bible_Belt said:
fwiw, next time spend that 20 minutes getting her ready with your hands first. Take your time, go slow, until she is wet and begging. Every gf I've ever had tells me that guys are always in too big of a rush. Yeah man there was plenty of foreplay. I mean, she was ready but since it was her first time that's why it hurt I'm guessing. Wouldn't know, I'm not a girl
It was a great first experience for sure. She's coming over tomorrow again, so yeah. I'm planning on just taking it slow and make sure she gets "worked in" for lack of a better term until she enjoys it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I didn't mean how you lead up to it as in right before....I wasn't aware that you two were dating already. That explains that.
 

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niiiiiice

good work bro, my gf and i recently lost ours aswell, though i would have preferred it if we waited till marriage

we promised not to have sex till then, but for now i'm happy with oral and being jerked off ^^
it's a hell of a lot better than masturbation that's for sure jajaja
:cheer:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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