FOr those of you who have followed my approach journal, you will know I am about a month post-breakup with my LTR and have been quite rusty. I have done some bar sarging but mostly daytime. My goal is a new LTR but I've been appraching even girls who I kjnow are not LTR material for practice, and to find a FB to tide me over until the next LTR.
At Borders, I stop in at lunch time today. I see a cute girl in the "Erotica" section, stand nearby looking at books, and she comes near me. I open her, ask what she is looking at, etc. Decent convo for about 5 minutes, then she does a "Nice talking to you" and walks off. Kinda pissed at myself for not closing.
THEN, I see another chick come in. Great body, dressed sorta sexy in heels, pin-striped pants, and a white button down shirt with one too many buttons undone. THe body is smoking, the face is merely "Ok." Not LTR worthy, but I want to approach and wait a few minutes then there are other people around, she is sitting in a chair almost in a corner, etc. Basically, I talk myself out of it.
I think she leaves the store. So after looking for another prospect (none), I go to leave.
I see her on a bench outside. She is smoking.
I sit next to her on the bench.
Me: hey there
Her: Hi
Me: I saw you inside... I was going to ask you what you were looking for and before I could you were gone.
Her: Oh, I was just looking around killing some time.
Then we talk about all kinds of stuff. She used to live here, but moved to New Orleans, and just got back here a week ago. She is looking at apartments and looking for a job. I notice after a few minutes she has no bra on. I started kino early, and she reciprocates. She shares she used to be half owner of an adult toy store. Then we start talking about sex a little. It is around 1:00, a little later, when we start talking and I tell her I have an appointment at my office at 3:00 (I really do). Told her I was just killing time until then. I practically have my arm around her on the bench after a while as we talk. When talking about sex, I tell her how so many people have hang-ups and put on a facade and are too afraid to be who they really are. I tell her I never judge people, etc. Anyhow, at one point, she says:
Her: Want to do something until your meeting?
Me: Sure, Well, my meeting is in a little bit. Want to ride with me to my office, and you can hang out in the conference room while I meet with my client.. he will be there only like 10 minutes. Then we can chill afterwards.
Her: Sure
We walk to my car. Driving to my office:
Me: Hey, I have to stop at my house for a minute to pick something up. Then we will go to my office.
Her: Ok. Cool.
We get to my house. She says she likes my place, etc. She wants to use the bathroom. I get a condom and put it in my pocket thinking I might get laid at my office.
I'm showing her around, and we are standing really close together, and she grabs my tie, pulls me in, and kisses me.
She starts undressing me, we go to the bedroom, no LMR.
I tell her to suck it for a minute before we have sex and she does. I then do her.
The pu$$y was tight, she has fake boobs, and had a tone body. Like I said, unfortunately the face was somewhat lacking. She is bi.
I'd never had a same day lay from a daytime pickup before.
I take her to my office, then take her back to my house after the meeting. I do her again.
Then I return her to the bookstore parking lot.
She said she'd call me tonight but didn't. I don't really care!
It was quite surreal.
And to think, I FRICKIN CHICKENED OUT AND ALMOST MISSED THIS OPPORTUNITY!!
So, all those times I had approach anxiety, I could not only have been missing the opportunity to meet my next LTR, but also could have been missing the opportunity to get laid the same day!
It is a numbers game, but if you keep at it, cold approaches work. During daytime. Even for same day lays.
The End.
At Borders, I stop in at lunch time today. I see a cute girl in the "Erotica" section, stand nearby looking at books, and she comes near me. I open her, ask what she is looking at, etc. Decent convo for about 5 minutes, then she does a "Nice talking to you" and walks off. Kinda pissed at myself for not closing.
THEN, I see another chick come in. Great body, dressed sorta sexy in heels, pin-striped pants, and a white button down shirt with one too many buttons undone. THe body is smoking, the face is merely "Ok." Not LTR worthy, but I want to approach and wait a few minutes then there are other people around, she is sitting in a chair almost in a corner, etc. Basically, I talk myself out of it.
I think she leaves the store. So after looking for another prospect (none), I go to leave.
I see her on a bench outside. She is smoking.
I sit next to her on the bench.
Me: hey there
Her: Hi
Me: I saw you inside... I was going to ask you what you were looking for and before I could you were gone.
Her: Oh, I was just looking around killing some time.
Then we talk about all kinds of stuff. She used to live here, but moved to New Orleans, and just got back here a week ago. She is looking at apartments and looking for a job. I notice after a few minutes she has no bra on. I started kino early, and she reciprocates. She shares she used to be half owner of an adult toy store. Then we start talking about sex a little. It is around 1:00, a little later, when we start talking and I tell her I have an appointment at my office at 3:00 (I really do). Told her I was just killing time until then. I practically have my arm around her on the bench after a while as we talk. When talking about sex, I tell her how so many people have hang-ups and put on a facade and are too afraid to be who they really are. I tell her I never judge people, etc. Anyhow, at one point, she says:
Her: Want to do something until your meeting?
Me: Sure, Well, my meeting is in a little bit. Want to ride with me to my office, and you can hang out in the conference room while I meet with my client.. he will be there only like 10 minutes. Then we can chill afterwards.
Her: Sure
We walk to my car. Driving to my office:
Me: Hey, I have to stop at my house for a minute to pick something up. Then we will go to my office.
Her: Ok. Cool.
We get to my house. She says she likes my place, etc. She wants to use the bathroom. I get a condom and put it in my pocket thinking I might get laid at my office.
I'm showing her around, and we are standing really close together, and she grabs my tie, pulls me in, and kisses me.
She starts undressing me, we go to the bedroom, no LMR.
I tell her to suck it for a minute before we have sex and she does. I then do her.
The pu$$y was tight, she has fake boobs, and had a tone body. Like I said, unfortunately the face was somewhat lacking. She is bi.
I'd never had a same day lay from a daytime pickup before.
I take her to my office, then take her back to my house after the meeting. I do her again.
Then I return her to the bookstore parking lot.
She said she'd call me tonight but didn't. I don't really care!
It was quite surreal.
And to think, I FRICKIN CHICKENED OUT AND ALMOST MISSED THIS OPPORTUNITY!!
So, all those times I had approach anxiety, I could not only have been missing the opportunity to meet my next LTR, but also could have been missing the opportunity to get laid the same day!
It is a numbers game, but if you keep at it, cold approaches work. During daytime. Even for same day lays.
The End.
