LR alicia - this happened on friday

[guywhoneedshelp]

The snow came down hard last night. A lot of my friends and I had made plans to go out, but the hazardous driving conditions scared almost everybody away. Except Alicia. I had only known her for 6 days at this point, but she drove 31 miles to come with me happy birthday. That meant a lot to me.

Alicia hung out with me, I gave her the tour on the apartment, which was interesting. I have been sleeping in my kitchen the last few days. We had a lot of rain last week which caused some major flooding, so everything has been removed from the 2 bedrooms, and is scattered throughout the house. My kitchen is filled with my bed, clothing, and other bedroom materials. I feel like I'm living in a trailer. I definitely wasn't making a good impression.

Joe came over. We went out to Friday's. Darren was working there, so he sat with us. We all ate, and then went back to my house. It was a low key night. Alicia and I laid in bed in the kitchen, and Joe was in the living room. I sent Joe a text message saying "I want to Fclose." Suddenly he told us he had to go. I walked him to his car and thanked him for helping me build some more comfort with Alicia, by being an extra person throughout the evening.

I dealt with about an hour and a half of LMR (Last minute resistance). This girl really liked me, she had serious feelings for me. I hated the feeling that I was sweet talking her, by saying "I understand." and "It's fine." when deep down I really wanted to **** her. But we just laid there, naked, touching eachother. There was oral sex as well, but when I reached for the condoms, she told me she didn't want to do that just yet.

Alicia - "This is special to me."
Me - "I'd like to think that every passionate relationship I have, begins passionately."

It was a line from Neil Strauss. (Page 178 of "The Game") But I meant it. However, as much as I would like to think that, it's not always the case.

Me - "You know, I feel like I'm sweet talking you just to get what I want. I hate the idea that sex is something a woman gives and a man takes. It's something that should be shared. I'd have such a clear head and relaxed conversation if we just got this first time over with."

It was another line from Neil Strauss. (Page 366 of "The Game") But I meant it, I really did. I had been myself the whole night, but I just wanted to get the sex over with so we could be normal together.

After an hour and a half of LMR, I ****ed her. And it was amazing. We continued to talk and hold eachother, and when we woke up at 8:50 AM, we ****ed again, which was also amazing. We laid there and talked all morning, and had breakfast. Cereal in bed, very classy. Eventually we fell back asleep. When I woke up I was kind of bored. Alicia was still sleeping and I had the sudden urge to sarge. I took a shower. Farrah called me while I was in the shower, so I talked to her for a little while. I also texted with Courtney for a little bit, who wanted to know how my night was. I told her there was a girl in my bed, and it wasn't her.

update on sunday - she has asked me for a relationship. I told her I'm not ready for that yet.

 

[The Bat]

I think it's time to change your user name? :crackup:

Anyway, "fake it till you make it"...remember that...it doesn't matter if you use line from here and there...but sometimes, I find that what I want to say has already been said (and typed up) somewhere by somebody else, so why not just repeat that...? I mean, what are the chances that she would catch you and say, "Hey, wait a minute...Person X said that line in this book or that internet..."?

And I like the little message you sent to Courtney. Absolutely perfect!

It conveyed that you have other prospects, you get laid on a regular basis, and more importantly, you don't need her therefore she best surrender to your frame if she wants to get with you, the prize.

I'd keep this Alicia girl around if you enjoyed the sex and like hanging out with her...which you did like, I assume.

When any of my plates drop the "R" bomb, I tell them that the term exclusivity is for insecure people who are worried about their partner. So long as me and her have a great time and have ground-shaking sex everytime we are together, there is no need to be boyfriend/girlfriend.

Honesty (i.e. relationship) requires that two people understand, share, and trust each other to be the best person they can be. When you are with her, make her feel that you and her understand each other, willfully share each other, and trust each other to be good people.

That kind of attitude, my friend, will tend to keep lot of these chicks who keep asking you for a relationship, around longer than you'd expect. Eventually, it gets to them and they will throw down an ultimatum, at which point, you can just simply walk away. Or take up on their offer if you are tired of sarging...but I doubt that will happen.

 

[guywhoneedshelp]

Hey man thanks for the reply, and I do wish I could change my user name.

The way to respond about relationships is a good one and I may use it if this topic is every brought up again.

The only girl that is okay with me being in multiple relationships is Farrah. She's a community girl and will actually call me and say "did you fclose that hb8 last night?" yet we still have a sexual relationship with one another.

Alicia however has told me last night that she doesn't want to be sleeping with anyone else, and wants to know if I'm sleeping with anyone else.

I kind of avoided the question, and simply said "You are the last person I have had sex with." Which was true, because the day before I did have sex with Alicia and I'm not having sex with Farrah again until tomorrow.

I called Courtney today just for the hell of it and to invite her to come to the club with us on Saturday. We're going to get a VIP table, so I figured I could talk to her, have fun with her, bounce her to the diner afterwards, and be closer to her. Courtney is a sweet HB10 that matches up to me at 6 foot 0inch (I'm 6 foot 3) and I really want to see if I can create anything more with her. (I've finger'd her and she's jacked me off, but that was actually inside the club and I've never fclosed on the day 2 we had.)

When I called Courtney at around 6PM today, she answered the phone, but after about a minute of chat she told me she was watching Shaun of the Dead so she'd call me back afterwards. At the next commercial, she called me back. I took that as an IOI. Most girls don't answer the phone at all, and most girls don't call back that quickly especially when they are with their friends.

Right now I'm confused as to what my goals are. I don't want to get rid of anybody, but I don't feel fulfilled either. I have no problem # closing and time bridging to a day 2 either, and for once, I have many options and a LOT of confidence when I go out. I've managed to make women my pleasure, yet Courtney still is the only girl to really make me feel excited when I see a text from her. Maybe it's because she's giving me a challenge, but either way I have been gaming properly to finally seal the deal, which WILL happen eventually.

Thanks Bat

 

[Solomon]

Kev

what's your objective, I see the game is super easy for you (man I would love to go on the field with you, we would have a blast) but are you just trying to get laid to get laid (you obviosuly have no problem with that at all these days) or are you trying to find "the one"

one thing I've noticed is that guys like "us" we tend to enjoy the chase and trill of the game more then the actual catch, its like a sport to us. Always re-evulate your goals

Nice report

 

[guywhoneedshelp]

Yesterday was interesting. Me and 2 friends met up with Alicia and her friend at a coffee house. I sat on the couch with Farrah to my left and Alicia to my right. Seemed like a milestone I had reached, a MLTR on each side.

Farrah knows about Alicia, but Alicia does not know about Farrah. Little does she know I had sex with Farrah earlier that day, and now Farrah is watching me kiss Alicia on the couch.

Someone is getting hurt, and I don't think Farrah really minds, but if Alicia were to find out that I am a ship who has many ports, she might be a bit upset.

"I was seeing about ten different girls now. They were what the PUAs call MLTRs-multiple long-term relationships. Unlike AFC's, I never lied to these girls. They all knew I was seeing other people. And, to my surprise, even if it didn't make all of them happy, none of them left me. One of the most important realizations I'd had in the game came from a Huna self-improvement book that Ross Jeffries had recommended, Mastering Your Hidden Self. It taught me the idea that, "The world is what you think it is." In other words, if you believe that you need to have a harem and having a harem is normal, women will agree to it. It's simply your reality. However, if you want a harem but secretly feel that it's cheating and unethical, you'll never have one."
Neil Strauss; The Game, page 271

"Solution: Be fair. Love her, dude. Be true to your feelings and don't hurt her but also know that you are polyamorous and want more. The idea of having many girls in many ports can be wholesomely nurtured."
Mystery; The Game, Page 185

 

[Solomon]

Yesterday was interesting. Me and 2 friends met up with Alicia and her friend at a coffee house. I sat on the couch with Farrah to my left and Alicia to my right. Seemed like a milestone I had reached, a MLTR on each side.

Farrah knows about Alicia, but Alicia does not know about Farrah. Little does she know I had sex with Farrah earlier that day, and now Farrah is watching me kiss Alicia on the couch.

Someone is getting hurt, and I don't think Farrah really minds, but if Alicia were to find out that I am a ship who has many ports, she might be a bit upset.

"I was seeing about ten different girls now. They were what the PUAs call MLTRs-multiple long-term relationships. Unlike AFC's, I never lied to these girls. They all knew I was seeing other people. And, to my surprise, even if it didn't make all of them happy, none of them left me. One of the most important realizations I'd had in the game came from a Huna self-improvement book that Ross Jeffries had recommended, Mastering Your Hidden Self. It taught me the idea that, "The world is what you think it is." In other words, if you believe that you need to have a harem and having a harem is normal, women will agree to it. It's simply your reality. However, if you want a harem but secretly feel that it's cheating and unethical, you'll never have one."
Neil Strauss; The Game, page 271

"Solution: Be fair. Love her, dude. Be true to your feelings and don't hurt her but also know that you are polyamorous and want more. The idea of having many girls in many ports can be wholesomely nurtured."
Mystery; The Game, Page 185

lol @ u being able to quote "the game" like the bible

da hell u got that **** memroized or refernced or some ****?

LOL