Loyalty

[wifehunter]

So, many of the mexican guys I give rides to say mexican girls are super loyal, and won't cheat etc. (Im sure there are exceptions to this rule) This reminds me of the docile loyal asian girls...

High value? Maybe I should focus on the exotic ladies from now on?

Love you, long time!

 

[marmel75]

Acting loyal and being loyal are two different things. Some people are just better at covering their tracks than others.

 

[Roober]

Sounds like something mexican women tell the rest of the world

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Sounds like something mexican women tell the rest of the world

well they still cook for their men. there is a stereotype of greater investment and loyalty.

 

[The Duke]

The divorce rate is significantly less for Mexican's than any other demographic. They also have more children, and get married more often. Mexican families remind me of white American families from the 1960's. Family and commitment were important.

Out of all the Mexican's I've known I'd say the women were far more loyal than the men!

 

[logicallefty]

Keep Mexican women on their side of the border and I'm sure they make great wives. Bring them to America and I imagine they are probably like any other woman from a foreign country. The longer they stay here the less wife material like they become.

 

[narcissist]

The concept of loyalty will drive you utterly insane if you think about it too much as being a prerequisite for relationships. Take it from me. You literally just have to continually gauge interest level with women. Once that interest level wanes, something is up and you can take the necessary path to eject. Loyalty is an archaic concept in monogamous relationships, from a time when women would be killed for cheating. Now, the only safe haven to guard against cheating is being an absolute boss, however, if the woman wants to cheat, she will, because at the end of the day the cons of cheating are just not there anymore. She might cheat she might not. I am learning to simply not give a sh1t about that, and just gauge any relationship based on the interest level and signs she is giving off. If she cheats, usually, the interest will start waning, and you can makes moves then.

This doesn't mean you shouldn't gauge for loyalty. Obviously you should. But do not assume that because you have gauged for loyalty she will never cheat.

 

[Roober]

well they still cook for their men. there is a stereotype of greater investment and loyalty.

Agreed! definitely not the westernized ones though. Long story short, if they hav

The concept of loyalty will drive you utterly insane if you think about it too much as being a prerequisite for relationships. Take it from me. You literally just have to continually gauge interest level with women. Once that interest level wanes, something is up and you can take the necessary path to eject. Loyalty is an archaic concept in monogamous relationships, from a time when women would be killed for cheating. Now, the only safe haven to guard against cheating is being an absolute boss, however, if the woman wants to cheat, she will, because at the end of the day the cons of cheating are just not there anymore. She might cheat she might not. I am learning to simply not give a sh1t about that, and just gauge any relationship based on the interest level and signs she is giving off. If she cheats, usually, the interest will start waning, and you can makes moves then.

This doesn't mean you shouldn't gauge for loyalty. Obviously you should. But do not assume that because you have gauged for loyalty she will never cheat.

Agreed! If you are paying attention to the dying interest, it is easy to see the direction the relationship is heading. At this point, you correct it or end it. You can't live on egg shells worrying if she will walk, it will ruin you first then your relationship.

Some women will cheat just because they had an off night, but that is a minority.

 

[Poon King]

All women engage in hypergamy if given the choice.

Don't mistake having no better options for loyalty.

 

[marmel75]

well they still cook for their men. there is a stereotype of greater investment and loyalty.

A lot of women cook...this is kinda nonsensical.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Oh come on, those Mexican mommas are all SUPER fat and weigh more than their husbands. THAT'S why they're loyal. If not, they go **** whoever they want whenever they want. Asians aren't loyal either, they use you for their own gain. My grandma is first generation Korean and if you haven't been around her often, then you wouldn't understand what she's saying because she has such a strong accent. She basically got pregant from my grandpa during the Korean War and used that as an excuse to force him into marriage so she could come to the US. My grandpa beforehand was almost somewhat of a hoodlum in a sense; the type of guy who wanted to wear a white shirt with a black leather jacket and greased his hair back. He always wanted a motorcycle REALLY badly. He basically did whatever he pleased too. Well because he got married, he gave her the green card to get into the US and my grandma essentially turned him into a laborer and broke his free spirit as I saw it. It's not like she didn't do anything at all, she was a billion times better than women today. But when my mother explained the story, I saw hypergamous and manipulative traits in her. She got my grandpa to marry her because she tried guilting him into doing it. I dunno, I think this is how women are though. I would say people in general do this in all situations, but I haven't really seen any men play off the emotions of others for their own personal gain unless they were doing so to their kids, usually as a form of discipline. So yeah, this is women for ya, whether they are Asian, Latina, black, blue, alien, or whatever. Oh well.