"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I've been doing setups 3 times a week for 2 weeks now

I'm starting to see a 6 pack... (I'm really skinny so there's no body fat problem)

But it's actually a 4 pack

I don't see the lower abs...

I only see the 4 pack on top...

Why arent the lower abs showing?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Could be water weight. Lower your sodium. Also, maybe you're not doing lower ab exercises...maybe. Have one of the pros on here help.

exrx.net

^sry, not linked.
 

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Lower abs do not exist. There is no lower abdominal muscle, there is only fat over the lower region of the rectus abdominus. Reduce your body fat and you'll see the whole of the rectus abdominus, but you will never see the lower abdominal muscle.
 

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Try this

This is what I saw on another site, I have been doing this for last two months which is not enough time to see the progress...

lay down with your legs bent (90 degrees). Your legs should be slightly apart, not closed. Move your legs up and try to reach your chin with ur knees(actually it is not necesary to go all the way but you get my point). It is extremely important not to change shape of your legs while doing this.

I guess I will be able to see some progress in a few months, since lower abs are the most difficult ones.
 

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do this with a buddy...

Have him stand up

You are laying down on your back. Your head is between his legs, so when you are facing up you can see his crotch. Sounds gay, I know, but I could not describe it any better :)

Alright, now grab his ankles. Bring both your legs up entirely, keeping them straight. So when they are up, you should look like a 90 degree angle. Have your friend push the legs back into starting positions, but this time do not let them hit the floor. Bring it back up and repeat.

I would 20 of them to start, and then work youre way up.

This excercise really helps build and define the lower portion of your stomach.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yes the laying down thing works, but you can do them to the side too, but I like to do other exercises for them instead. My favorite, but its hard, and works upper abs at the same time is bicycles. You lay on your back, knees at 90 degrees, and then put you index finger on your temples, but dont pull your head wirh your hands, and then pull your shoulder blades off the grounds, and start kicking like you riding a bike, while alternating with your elbows to your knees so that when you left leg goes toward your head, your right elbow tries to touch it. Try these for 2 or 3 sets of a minute, they are pretty hard, I do them with light medicine balls, cause I have been doing it for a while, but try whatever you want.
 

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Originally posted by naoi deag se deag
Lower abs do not exist. There is no lower abdominal muscle, there is only fat over the lower region of the rectus abdominus. Reduce your body fat and you'll see the whole of the rectus abdominus, but you will never see the lower abdominal muscle.
There's your answer. Enough said.

Personally I've got that problem too... We'll see what 8 wks. of dieting, not ab workouts, can do for me. :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by vanwilder
if you want some exercises which work the lower abdominar region, do some leg raises

You know what, Ive never noticed that, and your right.



Another one I didnt see mentioned that Ive done in the past, lay on your back with your feet pointed straight up at the ceiling. Push your toes up towards the ceiling, you'll know if your doing right because the lower portion of your back should come off the ground when you thrust your legs up towards the ceiling.
 
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