"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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low weights few reps slow execution short rest, opinion?

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Master Don Juan
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So Im now performing a new type of training (for my record) which consists of lower than usual weights (about 20-25% less than usual) performed very slowly about 3 secs up and 3 secs down.

Rest time 50 secs.

Needless to say it burns like hell and even moderate weight are damn heavy in the end, pump is great so is pain.

What do you think?

Goal is hypertrophy and muscle hardness.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I haven't tested this in the gym, so I can't remark on the low weight, slow reps. I do, however, do drop sets and failure to burn out sets, which make me feel exhausted. In general, I do think it's good practice for contraction of the muscle to go slow for better form and isolation of the muscle.

Let us know how it goes with that strategy. :up:
 
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