FIrst I cut ties with a female friend of mine of over twenty years. She has been married for over ten years, just had a child two years ago and this is the second time she is cheating on her husband (she told me). She is way out of his league so I guess he allows this ****. I was in full women hate mode today so I told her I couldnt be good friends with a woman who doesnt value her marriage. Then went complete ghost. I am going to surround myself with people of integrity from now on.
Secondly, I went out on a date tonight with a Latin woman I met on OLD, drove thirty minutes to meet up with her after work around 6pm. at a bar just outside NYC, she was 15min late, she was less attractive than her photos. I said Fack, she looks nothing like her photos, anyway I am a nice guy so I had a drink with her.
We sit down at the bar and she immediately starts checking out the much younger bartender guy, he was a better looking dude than me, which is no big deal. We ordered drinks, she had a terrible accent, could barely understand her, saying she just moved from latin america and is working at a bakery. Didnt seem interested in me.
The bartender starts flirting with her in front of me, so I step up my game in terms of kino. She just kept staring at the bartender. I decided it was time to end the date.
I had a few girls match with me on Bumble while on the date. Some chick messaged me, while my date was in the bathroom, I messaged her back and asked if she wanted to meet at Bar x in the city, I am only a few min away.
While my date is still in the restroom, I ask the bartender to close out my tab for my drink. I told him we are paying separate. I paid for my drink walked away while my date was in the restroom. Never saw her again.
Met up with the new Bumble chick thirty minutes later at the bar, what a world of difference, very attractive, receptive to my advances, we went back to her place and had sex.
One year ago, I would have never acted like this. I would have tolerated disrespect. Dont ever be afraid to end the date early. Your time is the most valuable thing you can give a person.
If it wasnt for me going on the date with the Latin chick, I would have never banged the other chick in the city. When one door closes, another one opens.
Secondly, I went out on a date tonight with a Latin woman I met on OLD, drove thirty minutes to meet up with her after work around 6pm. at a bar just outside NYC, she was 15min late, she was less attractive than her photos. I said Fack, she looks nothing like her photos, anyway I am a nice guy so I had a drink with her.
We sit down at the bar and she immediately starts checking out the much younger bartender guy, he was a better looking dude than me, which is no big deal. We ordered drinks, she had a terrible accent, could barely understand her, saying she just moved from latin america and is working at a bakery. Didnt seem interested in me.
The bartender starts flirting with her in front of me, so I step up my game in terms of kino. She just kept staring at the bartender. I decided it was time to end the date.
I had a few girls match with me on Bumble while on the date. Some chick messaged me, while my date was in the bathroom, I messaged her back and asked if she wanted to meet at Bar x in the city, I am only a few min away.
While my date is still in the restroom, I ask the bartender to close out my tab for my drink. I told him we are paying separate. I paid for my drink walked away while my date was in the restroom. Never saw her again.
Met up with the new Bumble chick thirty minutes later at the bar, what a world of difference, very attractive, receptive to my advances, we went back to her place and had sex.
One year ago, I would have never acted like this. I would have tolerated disrespect. Dont ever be afraid to end the date early. Your time is the most valuable thing you can give a person.
If it wasnt for me going on the date with the Latin chick, I would have never banged the other chick in the city. When one door closes, another one opens.
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