these ones, that you posted abovesure; what other effects?
edited it.
must be tired, I need the physical rest lately but spend a lot of time reading on sosuave. I feel greedy for more knowledge, but its a lot of reading from a screen...tiring
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.