“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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For background, I sucked in high school with girls. It did real well in college and the year after.

Right now I'm in the best shape of my life 5'11, 190 11% body fat. I'm a cop, which was my dream. Making good money and benefits. I'm 27.

Problem now is I'm working midnights with wednesday and Thursday off. On top of that, I work in the "hood", so I don't meet any women on duty thAt I would even think about dating ha ha.

Another problem is I'm an alcoholic, recovering. I don't drink now but I don't go to the bars. And no I can't go and just not drink.

So where do I meet girls now? I haven't asked a girl out in months, but I honestly haven't talked to a girl I was interested in in that long. I was interested in my buddy's girl's friend, but she won't hook me up with her for some reason. So I don't know where to go from here.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Internet dating.
Show a picture of yourself in uniform (just one of many).
Bet you get a ton of hits.

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The circumstances are different but I'm basically in the same situation. In good shape, healthy, happy and have money to burn. But haven't had sex for 6 months and am just not meeting any women (in a foreign country with no social circle and no wingman).

I'm sure if I was in contact with women I'd be doing well with them but just not meeting them at ll. Sucks dude.
 
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Church would be ok. It I'm not religious at all. And gym I get for free due to work but I only see people from work there obviously.

I may try Internet dating but it just seems so pathetic.
 
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SamMalone said:
Church would be ok. It I'm not religious at all. And gym I get for free due to work but I only see people from work there obviously.

I may try Internet dating but it just seems so pathetic.
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Church and internet dating are both good options. A lot of women go to church trying to meet men. There are singles ministries. Just don't get with a chick that is too religious. Also, I think online dating has pretty much lost its stigma at this point. I would venture to guess that after mutual friends/acquaintances, it's probably as good a method as any for meeting people after college.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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SamMalone said:
Church would be ok. It I'm not religious at all. And gym I get for free due to work but I only see people from work there obviously.

I may try Internet dating but it just seems so pathetic.
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I wouldn't touch church. Women there are looking for a religious man that god will smile on. If you're not religious, it would waste their time.

Internet, pathetic?
Hardly.

It's a great tool for dating, gaining skills, accommodating unusual search criteria (in your case work hours). I would recommend match.com rather than the others. Tons of hungry women on that site.

In my city, the number of options for a woman once she keys my stats (which are quite typical for a woman to want - height, weight, body, hair, income, location ...) yields about 3 pages of options. Where my typical search yields about 70 pages of options. Its totally a man's market.

Is it a buffer, maybe, but it's a fantastic tool to use to have some fun and get started within a couple days.

All this said, given your age and your obvious appeal to women (profession, health ...), you may just want to do the DJ boot camp. That will force you to meet tons of women in a variety of places.

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