"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Low on confidence?

ryanvalmont

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Ok i figure i should share some wizdom as to how to increase your confidence as i use to be very shy.

. Try your BEST to look your BEST everytime you go out the door,it's well known that if you look good your FEEL good.

.Talk to yourself and tell yourself that your a GOD and that everyone else don't matter and it's YOUR reality and that there just visitors.

.Think about how your gonna go out today/tonight and look really cool and act like the GOD you ARE!!

.Don't let **** get you down,do you think a GOD would be put down and let crap get to him all the time?....life is like a rollacoaster and you must first learn to ride this rollacoaster before you can enjoy it.

.Be prepared to laugh at yourself in every situation as that show's confidence in the fact you don't let things get to you.

.Have a GOAL,you MUST have a goal in everything in life as what's the point.

These are just a few things that have turned me from this loser/shy ****head into this ultra confident guy.

But the main one is to keep your head up and look DOWN on people rather than cower and shy away.

LIFE is what you make it,and you only get one life....so get out there and enjoy your life!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Re: Re: Low on confidence?

Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
Instead of "God" use "King".

If you were a god you could create the hottest bytches and fvck them.
That's true!
 

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i agree 100& with the goals thing, everytime i go out on my bike i set myself a goal to improve, or do an individual task, and it helps, being organised helps aswell, dont know how it just does!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If you go out thinking that you are a G-D you are nothing but a sheep in wolf's clothing.

You need to do things that will make you a better man overall. You cant act like a you are the prize when you are obviously not. Youll just come off as arrogant and insecure. Girls see right through it, and so the surrounding mates.
 
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