"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Low interest in my current relationship

Paradiddle

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No specific reason but nowadays I don't want to continue this relationship with my current girlfriend. The charm is gone. If I get to have sex with her, that's okay. Even If I don't, that's okay too. I don't know what has happened. Any experience from your side guys? Did you dump her if this has happened to you at any point of time?
I see lots of people asking to dump your girl if she is showing some disrespect or if you are not interested or if you see some red flags here and there. But my question is how can I dump her without being ruthless? I don't want to explain why I dumped her to most of our common friends as well. Need some help on this, guys.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I dumped a girl because I got tired of her waiting until the day of something, usually two hours before we were supposed to go, to cancel plans on me. Always had a good excuse and I knew it was the truth but damn it was impossible to make future plans with her cause you just never knew.
 
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Just be clear and direct about it.
Best way to go about it imo.
 
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