Low IL Chick from Work

[DJ00]

How should i respond if this chick says that she misses me?

We only work together once in a blue moon because of how busy she is with college and school related things.

Yes i have banged her before a few times between june and september. Havent had sex with her in the last month, only a makeout session, got verbal resistance which broke my flow. She had a boyfriend pretty much the whole time we've been messing around. He just broke up with her last week after a 8 month relationship. She is now hanging out with the guy that she was with for 18 months, which is the guy she was with prior to the 8 month guy. This kinda make me pissed at first but i have pretty much stopped those emotions dead in there tracks once i realized i was thinking like an AFC. I think she is using this poor guy(nice guy/AFC) since her self esteem is low and broken hearted. I'm not even going to tell you what she had told me that this guy has said to her. It's pityful, lmfao.

I work with her this weekend and was wondering how i should respond if she says that she misses me? She has pulled this "miss you" sh1t before btw...


I'm thinking of saying:

"I know" with a smile.

OR

"what's up with girls telling me that they miss me this week?" (in a playful manner)

 

[Sofomore]

Its up to you man. Keep it light and funny, it all depends on what you want. You trying to tap dat a$$? If you are just keep your cool and do what you do. You have already hit it so just be like you were this summer.

 

[DJ00]

Yea i'd like to tap it but im beginning to realize that the pu$$y might not be worth it. I think i have developed oneitis for this chick and frankly im tired of not being a the highest priority guy in her life. I don't like thinking that im 2nd best or even 3rd best to someone else. The fling probably lasted longer than it should. None of this would be a problem if i would just spin more plates but that's a hard mindset for me to get in. I have to do it tho.

The situation use to be like this priority wise: 8 month relationship guy, me, and she would keep contact with the 18 month guy or at least reply to his attention.

Now after the 8 month guy broke up with her its: 18 month guy > who knows

She's a broke a$$ white girl and somewhat tomboyish that lies, cheats, and steals(petty retail sh1t). Seems like she is going for an old LTR guy that places her at a higher value than him since she just got broke up with.

I just don't know what to do. Probably going to just act indifferent around her when she is in my presence and go no contact.

 

[DJ00]

Situation before her breakup was: 8 month guy > me > 18month guy(which she was in contact with)

Situation after breakup: 18 month guy > god knows who

I'd like to tap it again but i'm not sure if this poon is worth the trouble considering i think i have developed oneitis for her. It was fun at first(when no emotions were involved) but it got to a point where i felt like i was 2nd best(her saying she liked me a lot and she loved me while having a boyfriend), I would just reply with, " i love me too" or "i know". I should have just been firm with her after the first time she said it replying with,"stop telling me you love me, we're not together" (or something to that effect) and walk away, that's what a man would do when a woman is trying to get him to catch feelings while she's got a higher priority guy in here life.

I need to spin plates and this sh1t probably won't happen or at least lessen the chances. It's just a hard mindset to get in atm, I need to start looking at things differently.

I'm going to act indifferent to this girl if we work together and just go no contact.