Low IL, a sh1t test, or both......?

[aliasguy]

str8up wrote:

"...my theory is that it is MUCH MORE IMPORTANT to avoid doing things that DESTROY attraction, than it is to do things that CREATE attraction."

I had never thought of that. But, intuitively, it sounds so RIGHT. (At least now that I know a few things.)

Excellent point, man.

Yep, nothing kills attraction, comfort, and interest like a "f*ck-up." It's almost like a "no tolerance" thing. One screwup, & you can be crossed right off her list.

Now that I think of it, I seem to remember a thread a while back about "Doing nothing" or "saying nothing." Maybe we're all just trying too hard too much of the time.

I'm gonna hang back and see what happens. But I'm still going to be "escalating." (I'm talking about the verbal end of "trying." Less talk with them all. For a few weeks. We'll see.)

 

[drmeathead]

yeah man this is over. sorry. dont answer her email is the best option. think of it this way. you called. she emailed which is a step down trying to give herself higher value. if bill gates called her and said he had a billion dollars for her, do you think she would have emailed him? hell no. so the only form of communication lower than email is..........NONE. if she runs into and is interested and questions you on why you didnt answer her email...your response is a simple oh it gets busy around the holidays ya know. then talk about something else.

correct me if i am wrong here but that email is full of BS. she left her cell phone...hmmm doubt it. then she didnt CALL you back...why? she is so busy aka doing **** with people other than you. cmon man dont do yourself like this.

 

[drmeathead]

yeah the last girl i broke things off with the last thing i said was well leave me the **** alone then when she ljbfs me. then i told her she felt otherwise and was lyin to herself. then closed it out with a **** you.

i had told her previous that i didnt want just friends but she kept messaging me. so i when she brought up this just friends **** i told her off. she hasnt bothered me in over a week.