hey guys. I've wanted to know if anyone here has gotten rid of that "being yourself with guys" I seem to blank out when finding what to talk about. With girls is way easier since i've focused more my efforts on them before. One guy yesterday told me he knew "I wasnt like that" after making a ****y and funny joke yesterday. Which is something I barely do with guys. Seemed to react well to it. I'm Probably scared guys will beat me up. Anyways tips on how to over come this. Thanks for your time.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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