“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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lovely?, wtf?

stevey_2000

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i have been told by loadsa girls recently that i am 'lovely', does other DJ's get told that there this cos i find it annoying if your trying to DJ them!

Ste.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Yeah, wtf?

Maybe that's another word for "nice"...
 

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Is that better than being "sweet"?

A girl that I am somewhat interested in and have been hooking up with for a few weeks told me that I was "sweet" and thanked me for my concern when I asked her if she needed more date-like activities.
 

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from my experiences, sweet means they think your an AFC, LOL!

i've just been talking the girl in question and 'cute looking' and 'great personality' we're mentioned so i guess it isn't that bad!! ;)

Ste.
 

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I don't know.

Haven't you ever heard some one describe someone who isn't attractive as having a "great personality"?
 

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a girl called me lovely the other week...I had the same dilema.
Online Thesaurus states:

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By the way I think this a UK thing.
 

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It's ok when girls say "you're sweet" or "you're nice" or "you're charming" when you're in a relationship. If they say it outside a relationship, it's a way to say:"let us be friends". Of course, if she constantly says "you're sweet", ask her phonenumber and date her.
 
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