"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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love.. what am i getting myself into??

redbullfbu

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i moved to FL about 4 months ago and within my first few days of school i met this girl in class, i fvcked her within 3 days of chillin with her..shes the only guy shes ever fvcked within 3 days of meeting OR not even going out..i wasn't sure how i felt for her at the time cuz i was jus lookin for some pvssy..then a few days later she wanted to know if we were together and i said yeah sure cuz i jus moved down here and shes pretty popular..well it turns out within she felll in love with me right away, which i didnt find out till a little bit later...but anyways..she is crazy for me...and usually i next girls who are crazy and clingy. this is my longest relationship since middle school cuz ive always jus been pimpin around etc. ive broken her trust so many times, lied to her so many times, which shes found out, and ive cheated on her when i was too drunk to remember my own name (once) which she never found out about. she lost trust for me after i lied to her a few times about girls i was chillin with that she knew wanted me..but now shes slowly started to gain trust back..

now what i want to ask you guys is...how come after a few months of an LTR u have to stop being a "DJ" to her. i was an a complete ******* when i first started dating her..now she has me doing AFC things for her which is ok cuz i still do a lot of DJ things.. is this normal at all???? before you guys say next her....this is the first girl ive never gotten bored of, and i see her almost every DAY which can suck somtimes (she lives down the street from me) but still we've never gotten sick of eachother...and honestly the sex has never gotten old like it usually does...she will try ANYTHING and shes great at fvckin! so plz tell me has love captured me?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I had the same problem but iv'e pretty much gotten over her. I still see her often though. Every time I see her I get feeling for her again which sucks b/c I lately I havent gotten anything, mainly b/c I havent felt like it since her. Idk what to say, i'd stay with her until it messes with your game or she gets boring. Thanks for brining this up though b/c it remminded me to make a thread of my problem. GL anyway.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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I'm kind of in the same boat right now. I'm with a girl now for 3 months. She tells me she loves me, how much I mean to her, we hang out pretty much everyday. Yet.. We don't get tired of each other, always have fun, sex is still great. We do have some fights and arguments but women need drama in their life. Keep their emotions like a roller coaster.

So I think as long as your happy with this girl and its a good relationship. Keep her for awhile so how things turn out.
 
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