"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"Love" vs. "straight up manipulated-by-society PVSSY"

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I can understand why guys fall in love, why guys love certain women, and how love works very well sometimes.

But can someone explain to me why THIS propaganda called "music" is allowed to play mainstream and influence the way millions of young minds think about man/woman dating relations?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hw3ZiGHfErw


LYRICS (best parts highlighted in bold)

Easy come, easy go, that's just how you live
Oh, take, take, take it all but you never give
Should've known you was trouble from the first kiss
Had your eyes wide open, why were they open?

Gave you all I had and you tossed it in the trash
You tossed it in the trash, you did
To give me all your love is all I ever asked
'Cause what you don't understand is

I'd catch a grenade for ya
Throw my hand on a blade for ya
I'd jump in front of a train for ya
You know I'd do anything for ya

I would go through all this pain
Take a bullet straight through my brain
Yes, I would die for you, baby
But you won't do the same


No, no, no, no

Black, black, black and blue, beat me 'til I'm numb
Tell the devil I said, hey, when you get back to where you're from
Mad women, bad women, that's just what you are, yeah
You'll smile in my face then rip the brakes out my car

Gave you all I had and you tossed it in the trash
You tossed it in the trash, yes, you did
To give me all your love is all I ever asked
'Cause what you don't understand is

I'd catch a grenade for ya
Throw my hand on a blade for ya
I'd jump in front of a train for ya
You know I'd do anything for ya

I would go through all this pain
Take a bullet straight through my brain
Yes, I would die for ya, baby
But you won't do the same


If my body was on fire
Ooh, you'd watch me burn down in flames
You said you loved me, you're a liar
'Cause you never, ever, ever did, baby

But darling, I'd still catch a grenade for ya
Throw my hand on a blade for ya
I'd jump in front of a train for ya
You know I'd do anything for ya

I would go through all this pain
Take a bullet straight through my brain
Yes, I would die for you, baby
But you won't do the same

No, you won't do the same
You wouldn't do the same
Ooh, you never do the same
No, no, no, no






Oh shyt, most of the song is in BOLD.....I wonder why?? Maybe because this whole song is just a list of ways that a guy will kill himself for a BYTCH who doesn't even like him (in fact, she tries to kill him according to the lyrics in the song). Is there ANYTHING i can personally do to take this song off the airwaves? I find that a simple complaint to local radio stations won't be enough.

I have heard many pvssified songs over the radio the past few years, but this one is BY FAR the worst.........it makes it sound like a man's life is totally disposable as long as he dies for a woman (a woman who doesn't love him and doesn't give a fvck about him).......I mean, this promotes men to fight and kill each other over women, doesn't it??

HOW can this shyt ever be accepted??
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The Assistant said:
But can someone explain to me why THIS propaganda called "music" is allowed to play mainstream and influence the way millions of young minds think about man/woman dating relations?

because its sells and makes money. these music companeis dont give a fukk about society. they just want the $$$
 

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Its all romanticism. As you can see from the common AFC all this music teaches us to romanticize love, just like the story Romeo Juliet.

"Oh Romeo's love was so great that he died for her! Juliet's was so great that that she killed herself as well!"

"Oh I would catch a grenade/ get stabbed in the face/ take a bullet through the brain for my baby boo!"

The most romantic things are not REALISTIC. In Romanticism, the purpose of sacrifice in some ways is supposed to show how strong and virtuous love is. Realistically, you get an AFC.
 

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I think it needs to be point out the fact that getting a bullet to defend a woman who's the mother of your children is not the same thing as taking a bullet for a girl you "like" in order to show her how much you love her.

This is actually the difference in the sacrifice that a man does for a woman,it's the same difference as buying a dinner for your 10yrs LTR who raised your sons and took care of your home compared to buying dinner to a girl just met in order to "make her like you" (afc way).
 

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Jeez, if you hate on the song don't listen to it. Yes, I know the lyrics are ridiculous. I hate them too. Who buys a song for the lyrics? You listen because you love the beats!
You want pessimistic lyrics look up Lily Allen.
EDIT: Better yes, why don't we get rid of all music with lyrics on the airwaves and replace them with classical music? That way there are no lyrics that could manipulate people!
EDIT2:"How can this be accepted?" Free speech.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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JustLurk said:
Jeez, if you hate on the song don't listen to it. Yes, I know the lyrics are ridiculous. I hate them too. Who buys a song for the lyrics? You listen because you love the beats!
You want pessimistic lyrics look up Lily Allen.
EDIT: Better yes, why don't we get rid of all music with lyrics on the airwaves and replace them with classical music? That way there are no lyrics that could manipulate people!
EDIT2:"How can this be accepted?" Free speech.
Off topic from thread but how can you say 'who listens to lyrics?' lol.

Have you never heard of rap music? Where do you live a desert island?
 

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Off topic from thread but how can you say 'who listens to lyrics?' lol.

Have you never heard of rap music? Where do you live a desert island?
Oh s*** rap I forgot about that. Disregard that.
To be honest to you there's a lot of rap out there that has great beats and bad lyrics. Rap doesn't need lyrics to be good. Figured this out when I started loving this great rap song, but it was in French and I don't speak a **** of French. (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dxn_qXgdG9I) Link doesn't have to be rap but it gets the point across.
 

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this isn't romanticism though. Romeo and Juliet supposedly loved each other. This guy is singing about killing himself for a girl who doesn't only NOT like him, but she would mess with his brakes in an effort to kill him. So, he wants to kill himself for a girl who has no feelings for him at all........that is not fvcking romanticism lol
 

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Funnily enough this was the first song on the radio on the drive to work this morning, I listened to it and thought...wtf????

ok, its only a song but really those lyrics? unfortunately, young men and woman will listen to it and will buy into the basic message it sends out and reinforces. i.e. man must do whatever, whenever to prove his love, woman has to just sit and loof pretty!!!
the song is an aborition, its horrible and demeaning, i is sooo anti DJ. I cant say it should be banned but then again, things wont get easier for younbg men so long as they listen to cr@p like that
 

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I hope everyone notices that this song isn't even about love, because the girl that this guy would die for, as stated in the song, would NOT die for him, threw his heart in the trash, rip the brakes out of his car, and in general doesn't even like him and thinks he is a piece of shyt..........but he will still gladly die for her

Forget about romance, this is encouraging psycho/suicidal thoughts.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Actually................. The guy is holding her accountable for her behavior. He's complaining that she won't reciprocate his sacrifice.

He's not just saying he would die for her, he's saying he's dissapointed that she won't reward him for his behaviour.

He's an AFC who is taking the first step from losing his AFC ways: realizing that his AFC behavour brings him nothing but pain.


Now let's just hope he makes the next step and hopefully his next song will be something like this:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gmqpQb6x74M
 

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Yes, but he says in resolution that he would "still catch a grenade for ya", etc. even despite his recognition of her behavior and lack of reciprocity.

That goes to show how automatic our AFC principles are when it comes to women, as if we must treat them according to a higher standard despite their behavior, simply as a matter of principle.

We are very fortunate to be among the first who are unplugging and to be standing up to women (aka society's expectations) and REQUIRING proper behavior.
 

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I don't know what disgusts me more, lol... The lyrics or the use of Autotune.
 
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