Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Dude,Originally posted by Deagleclaw:
Dude,
I started using it in December. Let's just say my average per month trippled.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
it affects the brain. oh my god.. it's like alcohol then. i would prefer drinking one glass of beer, at least it has some taste and doesn't cost 60 bucks. it's totally bullsh*t. if you want a chick magnet Davidoff Perfumes are there for you. Cool Water, Echo and Cool Water Deep. Women are in love with them, believe me. Especially Echo is perfect. A friend of mine has this and every girl in the school asks what he's wearing. Absolutely magnificent.Originally posted by krd
I guess if you sniff the fumes for long enough, it starts to affect your brain.
The best colognes iMo are Aqua De GIO, Dolce Gabana, and Jovan musk.Originally posted by NoMoreNiceGuy
I've tried pheremone colognes before with ZERO results. The cologne that I swear by now is Jovan musk for Men. Women's reaction to this stuff has been amazing, but to a point. They all LOVE the smell, but it alone won't make them want to sleep with you. I even had a women sniff me out in a bar one time. it was a girl I know and she got a whiff of it and said "who is wear that great cologne!" She then started sniffing until she found me. But she didn't want to go home with me she wated to take my bottle of cologne home. Reallly pissed me off. I've always had women I slow dance with tell me I smell so nice. But no matter how good you smell that aone isn't going to do much.
I have come to realize those testimonial letters you read about products like pheremones and books about getting women are all LIES, written by the people selling the product. Don't believe them.
By the way the price of Jovan is great. About $10 for a 2oz bottle which lasts for a good long time.
i hope u dont wear it though because they are designed for men to be attracted to.Originally posted by Evulshin
...the female version is my favorite.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.