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love or lust, which one?

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That's it, I thought, but again i get confused if I love the guy or is it just lust?
This guy I have been dating is a suave talker, he always got me off my feet every time he talks sweet nothing to me. I don't know if I am just weak or I love him even if I know he got lots of girlfriends. Am confused. I think he is just playing around but still I always ended saying yes to him every time he wants to have sex with me. HELP! Do you know anything about good dating and about true love? Hope you do and post it here...
K guys got to go....hope to hear from you.
 

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No dude.....I think its love and if you really love him you will give him a BJ the next time you see him
 
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roseann said:
That's it, I thought, but again i get confused if I love the guy or is it just lust?

If you have to ask, it's probably lust.

This guy I have been dating is a suave talker, he always got me off my feet every time he talks sweet nothing to me. I don't know if I am just weak or I love him even if I know he got lots of girlfriends. Am confused. I think he is just playing around but still I always ended saying yes to him every time he wants to have sex with me. HELP!

He knows how to push your buttons, i.e. make your 'gina tingle. Plus, he's probably good in the sack so you come back for more. Yes, it's absolutely lust. You THINK it's love because either you want to justify in your own mind your investment in him and/or you're getting attached from being physical with this guy.

Do you know anything about good dating and about true love? Hope you do and post it here...K guys got to go....hope to hear from you.
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Broad, open-ended questions hurt my brain. I do better with specific ones :rock:.
 
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Real love is not about sex or smooth talking. Would this person die for you probably not. You are in lust hurts get over it.
 
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