"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Love, Lust, and Life

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welcome to the domain of the artist formerly known as a..............Pvssy Eater!!!

Well kids today or tonight, depending on what part of towwwnnn you in, I thought I might share a little somethin somethin with you to not only help the don juan in you, but also help you get to the place where you want to be with those creatures over there that some guy named, women.

I want to point out three totally different, but totally similar in display, personalities or characteristics or feelings, or whatever you want to call them, they are, love, lust and life.

These three are not only the seeds and the harvests of everything there is to life, but they are the only tools that can either re-build or finish building your finished product and that is....to accomplish your goals.

Lets start with Life. Now some of you may say, well, hes starting with life, it seems that life is a result of love and/or lust, but gentlement, that is actually not the case.

Life is the current moment, the current state, the current time, the current place that you are at the moment. If you are reading this, your current moment is in front of a computer screen, you are experienceing life at this moment. You might feel depressed right now, that is your current moment in life. You might feel horny right now, that is your current state in life. Life is always now, and always occurring. It never stops, we think it does, but it never stops.....now, I will come back to life in a moment.

Lust....is next. Lust is not what you might have been believed to believe it is. Lust is not desiring something that you WISHED you had, but rather, lust has nothing at all to do with desire. What! You all seem amazed.......well, to be exact. Lust is the lack of desire to fulfill your body's hunger. Your body sends you signals that it wants something, but due to your own lack of WILL, you refuse to pursuit and accomplish that which your body yearns for......I will explain this more in a moment.

Love....is not....."I am so in love with you baby!" "I will die for you baby!" "Let me lick your pvssy baby!" Love aint none of that bullshyt. Love is.....simply.......understanding. Love is not a feeling, feelings are emotions not releashed or held back, but love is simply.....understanding.....now let me pull all this together....I will break this thang up a bit.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When you first came to this site, your only question was, "How can I get the ladies to like me? How can I improve my GAME? How can I be the life of the party? How can I be more like him or that guy or how can I be more funny?" All these questions gentlemen, had absolutely, positively, NOTHING to do with why you REALLY came here. Oh, are you shocked! Read on......

When you first came here you might have thought that deep down inside you lacked something. Something was missing from YOU, that caused you all of the pain you were experienceing. However, the truth is...(like fantasia sings....thats humor folks) you never LACKED anything, but love.................

If you read my wording in the above post, you might have read that my defininition of love is understanding. What you lacked my friend, when you first came here, was not women. Women are everywhere! Not friends! Oh, friends are everywhere too buddy! But what you lacked was understanding, of women, of people, of even you.

So you lacked love......now you might be asking this question. What in the hell is he talking about? I came here on this site to get understanding of how to fvck women and live a better life, duh!.............however, the real understanding you must grasp is this............

THERE IS NO UNDERSTANDING.

Hahahaa........yeah. All these posts. All of these rules. All of these things. Just to conclude, there is no understanding. I came here looking for answers, but the answer is, the survey says, there is no answer. I know you are like, what the fvck, let me concludee.....

REmember I said life is constant. Love is understanding. Now, the UNDERSTANDING that there is nothing to understand, will now ALLOW you to relax in LIFE. It is only the time where we figure we lack some understanding, that we screw up our constant, and miss our own opportunities.

to be a don juan, is not about understanding women, who can understand something, that cannot be explained? Can you understand God? Well....then explain him. Oh you might say he is loving, he is caring........but is he like that all the time. Sometimes God allows us to go through weakness and disappointment to teach us a lesson.....is he still so loving and kind.. then...

See, I want you guys to understand something. When we try to understand something, we put that thing in a box. We say, if x does this, y will do that, when I am ****y and funny, she will like me, etc, etc. But my friends, that is not always the case. And even real LOVE, (theres that word again, which means understanding) does not come from being ****y funny, humorous, a don juan, a afc, or even being snoop dogg.

I want you to go out today, and take your mind out of LIFE, (your current) take your rules out of it. And lets just see, what is HAPPENING, right now.

Lets watch this.....................go on to the next reply
 

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lets not worry about how we look, how we act, or even how others are looking at us and judging us, lets just enjoy....the atmosphere.

There is one final aspect of this that I have not really touched on...and that is lust.

Your body tells you, I want a woman. You tell your body, but I must be ****y and funny. But I must be confident. But I must be a don juan. But your body tells you, I want a woman. And you go into rules and tactics, but your body is still saying, I want a woman.

After you apply your tactics, you eventually get a woman. You got the pvssy! But something is still wrong. You are just not fvcking happy.

You and that girl go yall separate ways for whatever reason. Then your body tells you, I want a woman. You tell your body, some more tactics like, I must be ****y and funny, or I must walk like this, or I must be arrogant, and all that......can I ask you a question guys......where the hell is the LIFE in that? (wheres the constant)

What is really happening, are constant is not even being lived. Our right now, is not even being explored, because rules take us OUT of right now. Totally out of right now, which is, life.

In right now, gentlemen, there is something I call, a force. This force, causes you to succeed without you even trying. Without even knowing, just what the hell you did so good. Without you knowing, just what the hell, you are so successful for.

This force, makes you RELATEABLE. Makes people say, "Where do I know you from? Why does it seem like, I already know you." this force, follows us all day long, and we dont even recongize it. This force talks to you, sleeps with you, walks with you. it is always constant, that is how you know it is the FORCE. It is that force, that gets the job. It is that force, that gets you success.

Not taking away from preparation, like dressing for success and doing research and preparing for an interview, but without the force, all those things mean nothing. MATTER-OF-FACT, people would hire and like somebody with the force, because all those other things can be easily changed.

Hahahahaha.......your body tells you (in the constant) I want a woman, (that is the force people) and instead of going and getting one, RIGHT THEN, you tell yourself, let me be ****y and funny. The tactics are fine, but it is the force that gets you success.

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so what is the overall thing you are trying to say Pvssy-Eater, this thread is too damn long!

To sum this up.

There is nothing to understanding gentlemen. Everything you want in life, is at your fingertips everyday you wake up. All that is separating you and it, is YOUR refusal, to be in the constant. YOUR refusal, to be in the force. YOUR refusal, to be in life. Which basically means, to just................................LIVE.
 

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I'm da first one! tralalala! :D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So basically, through our long indepth study of techniques of attraction we've realized that there's no technique.

The point of life is to just enjoy it and all the techniques that we've learned will become second hand.

I've recently come to the same realization. Its soooo simple. No need to think about anything, just enjoy the ride...

Whheeeeee!!! :D
 
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