"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Love is the Anwser...

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I met a guy this week that changed the way i think about life as a whole. The best part is, his idea was so simple...

He said: "Life is so short and fragile, you have to love everyone and enjoy the moments you've got."

Now, he didn't mean get all clingy and profess your undying lust for the poon, obviously. But just appreciate everyone who is friendly to you and don't be afraid to connect with the people around you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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KontrollerX

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He must be a John Lennon fan.

In anycase he was right.

Love is all you need.

Hell loving yourself is what makes you or anyone else into a DJ as self improvement is self love.

Love is even about that.
 
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All you need is a rational mind!! Everything sprouts from here!!!!
 

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i would agree with your friend.... and yes it is very simple. Its quite surprising how often people don't understand it... and even more surprising how easily its forgotten for the people who do understand it...... life is not easily made simple.
 

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He's saying there's a blink of an eye between between the cradle and the grave, so appreaciate every bite of your nachos:up:

And who can argue with that?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dont forget to love your mom. Alot of men who had bad relationships with their mom's and are holding anger, unconsciously hate all women. If you love your momma, and love women in general, they will feel good about you.

A woman told me that. ANd this time, I'll agree.
 
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